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"Many of us feel more alone than ever despite living in the most connected society in human history. We need to belong in the same way that we need oxygen-our physical bodies require it. We perform better and have greater successes as individuals when we are connected to the collective. Join author Natalie Franke as she shares her story of longing for connection in the chaos and lessons learned on her journey to true belonging. Together we'll uncover how to: Kick scroll-induced jealousy to the curb and transform the way that social media makes you feel about yourself and others Overcome loneliness by finding your people and cultivating true community in your personal and professional world Strike the balance between camaraderie and competition so that you can live a deeply fulfilled and joyful life Human beings are not highlight reels-we're done fanning the flames of comparison, drowning in our insecurities, and being pitted against one another. We're saying no to the endless rat race of getting ahead and goodbye to the narratives that leave us feeling left out and alone. We are destined for something better. We're made for so much more. Because knit into the fabric of our DNA, we were Built to Belong"--Book Synopsis
This fresh, inspiring call to community and connection from an entrepreneur and leader is perfect for anyone feeling alone and ready to set off on a journey to true belonging. Many of us feel more alone than ever despite living in the most connected society in human history. We need to belong in the same way that we need oxygen-our physical bodies require it. We perform better and have greater successes as individuals when we are connected to the collective. Join author Natalie Franke as she shares her story of longing for connection in the chaos and lessons learned on her journey to true belonging. Together we'll uncover how to:- Kick scroll-induced jealousy to the curb and transform the way that social media makes you feel about yourself and others
- Overcome loneliness by finding your people and cultivating true community in your personal and professional world
- Strike the balance between camaraderie and competition so that you can live a deeply fulfilled and joyful life
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"An engaging and inspiring read that makes plain the power that genuine human connection can have on our lives and businesses; a fact I've personally witnessed in Natalie's work as Head of Community at HoneyBook Rising Tide. The book is an important reminder that we can go further and reach our goals faster when we go together."--Oz Alon, CEO of HoneyBook
"This message is one the world desperately needs right now. With a heart-on-sleeve style of storytelling, Natalie doesn't hold back--her words are raw, rich, and necessary for anyone who feels like they're wrestling with belonging. Natalie takes you by the hand to guide you with her wisdom and vulnerability. If you're longing for a shift in the way you see and find community, this book is a beautiful first step."--Hannah Brencher, author of Fighting Forward
"A counter-cultural must-read! Business is all about relationships and yet, we are often in crazy, cutthroat competition with one another. Natalie reminds us that it doesn't have to be that way! We can be successful women with drive and ambition and still make people our priority."
--Lindsay Teague Moreno, bestselling author of Boss Up!"Riveting. Relevant. Radical. In a world where people are challenged by the vicissitudes of life and the virus of loneliness, along comes a message in the bottle that simply says we belong. Every organization that believes people are more important than profit should consider this book required reading. I am going to recommend it to every leader, individual, organization that I know. A timeless classic that has arrived in the nick of time."--Dr. Simon T. Bailey, Executive Coach, Author, and Thought Leader
"If you want to make a greater impact and find more meaning in life, don't do it alone. Tap into the power of the collective. Natalie's calls to action in Built to Belong are the perfect blueprint to widen and deepen your relationships so you can grow your community, business and heart."--Antonio Neves, author of Stop Living on Autopilot
"Natalie Franke is a champion of people--people over perfection, people over performance, people over competition. Built to Belong is both practical and inspirational--an important read for creatives and business leaders about why we should link arms, and the amazing gift of community over competition."--Jess Ekstrom, author of Chasing the Bright Side
"Natalie challenges us to change our perspectives on business and relationships. If you have a narrative in your head that the other person is your competition and not your friend, that soundtrack is going to encourage you to miss so many new opportunities. Natalie confronts the scarcity and competition mentality head on in a way that proves there's plenty to go around."
--Jon Acuff, New York Times bestselling author of Soundtracks"A call to arms--heart is always more valuable than hustle, and community is always more important than competition. Natalie inspires us to lean into vulnerability and paints a vision for how you can link arms in business and friendship."--Emily Ley, bestselling author of Growing Boldly
About the Author
Natalie Franke is one of the founders of the Rising Tide Society--a community of 77,000 creative entrepreneurs who gather in over 400 cities around the world in the spirit of community over competition. She took a hashtag (#communityovercompetition) and turned it into a movement and vibrant community that now spans the globe. Natalie currently lives in Annapolis, Maryland with her husband and son, and serves as the Head of Community for HoneyBook and Rising Tide--leading a team of world changers in the pursuit of empowering the creative economy to rise together doing what they love.Dimensions (Overall): 9.13 Inches (H) x 6.14 Inches (W) x 1.18 Inches (D)
Weight: .95 Pounds
Suggested Age: 22 Years and Up
Number of Pages: 256
Genre: Self Improvement
Sub-Genre: Personal Growth
Publisher: Worthy Books
Theme: Happiness
Format: Hardcover
Author: Natalie Franke
Language: English
Street Date: August 24, 2021
TCIN: 82565824
UPC: 9781546017684
Item Number (DPCI): 247-29-1175
Origin: Made in the USA or Imported
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A must read for anyone who needs community!
5 out of 5 stars
Amanda Warfield - 2 years ago
Entrepreneurship is hard. But I've found that 99% of the hard things? They can all be traced back to the loneliness of entrepreneurship. And with this book, Natalie might as well have taken Thor's hammer to those problems. This book is encouraging, motivating, and ACTIONABLE and will help you learn how to step out of the loneliness of entrepreneurship and into the amazing glory of community. Shoot. Even if you aren't an entrepreneur, if you're craving community - this book is a must read!
Inspirational wisdom & practical advice for life & business
5 out of 5 stars
becomingjustine - 2 years ago
Natalie's message is much need in our current age of disconnection and isolation. The power of her message, that cultivating community over competition, is truly life changing and has the power to change the world. She shares deep wisdom and practical advice for fostering relationships, and building a business (and a life) that impacts others, making the world a better place. She writes with honesty, candour, and hope. There is an integrity and weight to her words because she practices, and lives, what she preaches. The impact of her message, life and presence, have changed me and the direction of my business. I expected mostly inspiration when I first bought the electronic version to read and the audio version to listen to. (I usually only order physical copies of books I think will be a good reference tool). As I was listening to the author narrate her story, yet draw such practical, actionable wisdom on community building and starting/growing a business that matters, I ordered a physical copy so that I can mark it up and make notes in the margins. It's that good.
Community is key
5 out of 5 stars
Clarity on HOW you belong - 2 years ago
Natalie has a way with words. She preaches community AND makes you feel like you're part of hers, just in her writing. It gave me a sense of clarity on where I belong and how to embrace community to find it.
Will Inspire You!
5 out of 5 stars
katherine henry - 2 years ago
I'm really enjoying this book! I picked it up the moment it arrived and I have a hard time putting it down (I read before bed, so eventually I have to!) As a small business owner who works alone I love the message behind this book. I have attended many of the Rising Tide meet ups in Boston and made some really great friends. We have helped each other grow our businesses and cheered each other on. During COVID I've had to take a step back from working to care for my children and this book is really helping to rev me up again to get back to the work I love and to help my community come back after the pandemic. If you are looking for inspiration and a positive outlook grab this book - you'll be happy you did!
Ready for friendships that feel like HOME
5 out of 5 stars
Thumbs up graphic, would recommend
bonlyn88 - 2 years ago
In a culture of fierce competition this book is just what the world needs! Natalie has created a movement that helps shift the mindset from “oh she’s winning now I’m falling behind” to “if it can happen for her it can happen for me”. Natalie speaks of creating meaningful relationships where we all can succeed while collaborating with others. So get off the soapbox and help build a stage!!
Amazing and worth to read many times
5 out of 5 stars
Thumbs up graphic, would recommend
AnaG - 2 years ago
I joined the Rising Tide Society the year it started. I wanted to be part of this amazing community that was all about Community Over Competition. Natalie Franke and the rest of the co-leaders wanted all creatives to be part of this and it grew quickly with TuesdaysTogether chapters all over the world. When I heard that Natalie was writing a book, I knew I just had to order it. She is so thoughtful and caring. She inspires and empowers everyone around her. Built to Belong is for everyone. We all need a connection and a community to work through this world. It is a must read. If you need encouragement, inspiration, empowerment, or anything, this book has it all.
Must Read for all creative entrepreneurs and business owners!
5 out of 5 stars
Erin1683 - 2 years ago
When you're an entrepreneur trying to make it in this world, it is so hard to find friends and people who will support you versus pushing you down because they are your competition. This book is such a great read for those who want to help others rise and learn how to improve oneself, no matter what type of entrepreneur you are. You feel more empowered when you are working along side others in your community and Natalie shows us that this is the only way that we can truly become our best. This is a must read!!
A crucial book for all to read in these times!
5 out of 5 stars
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JIH205 - 2 years ago
If you follow Natalie, you know she is honest, passionate, inclusive and energetic. You know she has a fierce determination to lift others up, bring people together and cheer for others. Her new book, Built to Belong, is all that and more in written word. Whether you are an entrepreneur, side-hustler, dreamer, team leader, community leader, we all share a few things in common; our determination to succeed, to challenge ourselves and reach new goals. Those qualities are easy to talk about. The reality is that we also face loneliness, voices of comparison and judgement in competition. Natalie’s mission is to end the latter and prove that we can all be stronger, grow faster and be more successful in any journey of ours, if we reach out to one another to ask for help, support and encouragement and offer it in return. In Natalie’s book, she will show you though antidotes, science and studies that we are Built to Belong. We need each other to survive and thrive. We are not meant to fight, compete and tear each other down nor are those necessary in order for us to succeed. Her message of abundance is my favorite. “Abundance says there is room for everyone to pursue their dreams.” This mindset changes everything and truly shows us there is room at the table for all and if we include rather than ignore others, we will all be better off. Together we can share knowledge, experience and compassion and that will not only make our lives stronger but grow our hearts as well. We all know our world needs more compassion and kindness. Natalie is the friend we all need. The one who gives you a big hug and then a push to do better. Her energy, passion and mission is contagious and you will end this book ready not only believing that creating and embracing community is the way we should be living but you will also have the tools to make those changes in your life, once and for all. Built to Belong is filled with concrete information that will absolutely enable you to change your mindset to let go of the competitive, dog eat dog world we live in. Her book includes tactics, advice and real-life examples that prove that we can all share knowledge to help others to go further and do better without discounting or negating the work we do. This is not about cliches, pep talks and cute quotes. Natalie is honest about her experiences, mistakes she’s fallen trap to and at the same time, is realistic. She admits to changing her mind about online communities and continues to learn from others on the power and nuances of community. For example, we know our phones aren’t going away, but she offers way to use them effectively and productively so we can embrace community instead of avoid it. The world NEEDS this book right now. It’s been a rough 18+ months and many of our roles in jobs, home and life are changing. As we navigate new roles, this book can be the guide to help us all do better, be better and build the communities we all so desperately need. You do not need to be an entrepreneur to read this book. I believe everyone can gain from Natalie’s message. Whether you are a teacher, parent, community advisor, team leader, coach, church leader, teammate, friend, boss or ally, this book will offer the wisdom and insight for us all to change our mindset and work together. We need to lead by example to show our kids there is a better way to be. Natalie says, “Communities are built one person at a time”. There is no doubt that if you read this book, community will start with you.
Best book l've read in a LONG time!!
5 out of 5 stars
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ashley_ebert - 2 years ago
I’m obsessed with personal development, running my business, and all things that help me pursue a life of freedom for myself and my family - and this book is a MUST HAVE for anyone that identifies with wanting to make the most of their life. Built to Belong is not only about how your community impacts your life but how to change your mindset to understand how to make the greatest impact. The relationships you build along the way allow you to exponentially bring value to this world and Natalie’s book breaks down the power of community in such an easy to read and relevant way. I cannot wait for more books from Natalie. I’m such a fan!! Do yourself a favor and stop reading reviews and go purchase this book right now!! You won’t regret it!
Community over Competition!
5 out of 5 stars
Linsey - 2 years ago
In this book, Natalie encourages readers to discover what it means to truly rally around others in their personal and business circles. Learn firsthand what it’s like to be part of a community where you can make mistakes without being judged or criticized for them. This book is exactly what we need right now!
I Needed This.
5 out of 5 stars
Alexa Hallberg - 2 years ago
As an abuse survivor trying to find her way in the world this book was exactly what I needed. It made me laugh, it made me cry and there were so many "YES" moments where I felt someone truly understood how I was feeling. Natalie really solidified the power of community and inspired me to cultivate my circle to include those that will go to bat for me when I need it. The world can be a lonely place but Natalie just made it feel a little less so through the words on these pages. I will forever be gifting book.
A must read for any creative entrepreneur!
5 out of 5 stars
- 2 years ago, Verified purchaser
This book is a such a gift to the creative community. After a hard and isolating year, Natalie has given us a sense of hope and belonging that I will forever be grateful for. I can’t recommend “Built to Belong” enough!
An important & timely book!!
5 out of 5 stars
christi17 - 2 years ago
Natalie Franke powerfully writes about the importance of community in our competitive world. I think any business owner, creative, or anyone who struggles with comparison or feeling like they don't matter will benefit from reading this book. Natalie explains how we are wired for connection & how we can rise up together to accomplish more than we thought possible. This book inspired me to be a better person & encouraged me that even if I just help one person in this life it's all worth it. Thank you Natalie for this amazing book!
Highly recommend!
5 out of 5 stars
pacecreative - 2 years ago
In a world that can feel so isolating, Natalie Franke shares powerful insights, scientific data and weaves her personal struggles with loneliness, infertility, brain surgery, and building a business to share how she harnessed the power of community to transform herself and her business. #CommunityOverCompetition is the key to overcoming that feeling of loneliness and building those connections we all crave. She reminds us that we don't have to feel alone or do it all alone because we ALL are built to belong. And isn't that a reminder we all need right now, after everything we have been through? It is a must-read and the perfect guide to help build honest connections, and it starts with making people our priority. This book is a true inspiration and deserves to be in your hands. I highly recommend it!
Like a warm hug for lonely hearts
5 out of 5 stars
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- 2 years ago
For all of the creative misfits, loners, nerds… the ones who never felt a sense of true belonging… this book is for you. In this book, Natalie goes into detail about how we are hard-wired for deep meaningful relationships— that our health and well-being depends on our interpersonal connections. But often, we run into roadblocks: worthiness stories we tell ourselves, past trauma, the sting of rejection, and the almighty comparison trap. But, this book shares what it really means to have community and how to make it happen (you’ll have to read it to find out!). This book is inspirational, full of personal stories, and packed with scientific research. It’s the warm nerdy hug I have needed in these past two years. I hope it brings you comfort and a big dose of hope.
Such a great outlook
5 out of 5 stars
- 2 years ago
Such an amazing book! Exactly what I didn’t realize I needed. Reading this stories of community and how powerful it is to lift each other up is a huge encouragement in my life. I lived a very “average life” for the longest time because I wanted to fit in. Chapter 8 really spoke to me.
What we all need right now!
5 out of 5 stars
KShoufler - 2 years ago
As an entrepreneur, it's easy to get stuck in the loneliness and competition of building a business. Nat calls out our innate need for community and desire to do life with others. As the movement of #communityovercompetition spreads around the world through The Rising Tide Society that was co-founded by the author, entrepreneurs and people are grabbing hold of the hope and joy that community brings. This book is just what we need especially in times where we are all stuck working at home so often. Community is life-giving. Doing life alone is not good, and has never been good since creation of man. We need one another and this book is the encouragement you need to live your life WITH OTHERS.
More than a Hashtag
5 out of 5 stars
dannielynnfountain - 2 years ago
Built to Belong is the single best book I read in 2021 and truly embodies the fact that #communityovercompetition is more than a hashtag. Natalie's writing is thoughtful and unpacks the ideas behind community in a way that encourages you to create your own. A fantastic read!
Not just a hashtag, its a lifestyle
5 out of 5 stars
Thumbs up graphic, would recommend
- 2 years ago
We are truly better together, and this book empowers us to remember that we are built to belong. #communityovercompetition isn’t just a hashtag to add to your social posts, it’s a way of life. Discover in this book how authentic connections can be made both online and off. It’s not always pretty. We will make mistakes. But learn firsthand what it means to truly rally around others in your personal and business circles. Say goodbye to comparison, and hello to true community. Run, don’t walk to get this book! Natalie’s Reader Group guide makes it a perfect fall book study for you and your girlfriends!
This book is an absolute GAME CHANGER
5 out of 5 stars
- 2 years ago
"Community over competition isn’t just a feel-good phrase - it’s also a strategic business decision." What I appreciated most about this book was it not only pulled at the heartstrings, it got into the science of belonging. For the data-driven personality who wants to see the numbers, there is a chapter on the True ROI of Community. I have been blown away by the research and the case study of Rising Tide Society. Lives have already been changed and impacted by the mindset of #CommunityOverCompetition and this book makes it more accessible to the masses. I highly recommend this book for leaders who are looking for a fresh perspective on cultivating an engaged community in an age of isolation. Another quote I love from the book is "Behind every successful human being is a person or people that introduced them to their power and potential." The key to success is the depth of the community behind you. I can't wait to put some of these practical steps into action!