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Hunt, Gather, Parent - by Michaeleen Doucleff

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About the Book

An NPR Science Desk correspondent challenges the misleading child-rearing practices commonly recommended to parents, outlining alternatives grounded in international ancestral traditions that are being used effectively throughout the modern world.

Book Synopsis


The oldest cultures in the world have mastered the art of raising happy, well-adjusted children. What can we learn from them?

"Hunt, Gather, Parent is full of smart ideas that I immediately wanted to force on my own kids." --Pamela Druckerman, The New York Times Book Review

When Dr. Michaeleen Doucleff becomes a mother, she examines the studies behind modern parenting guidance and finds the evidence frustratingly limited and the conclusions often ineffective. Curious to learn about more effective parenting approaches, she visits a Maya village in the Yucatán Peninsula. There she encounters moms and dads who parent in a totally different way than we do--and raise extraordinarily kind, generous, and helpful children without yelling, nagging, or issuing timeouts. What else, Doucleff wonders, are Western parents missing out on?

In Hunt, Gather, Parent, Doucleff sets out with her three-year-old daughter in tow to learn and practice parenting strategies from families in three of the world's most venerable communities: Maya families in Mexico, Inuit families above the Arctic Circle, and Hadzabe families in Tanzania. She sees that these cultures don't have the same problems with children that Western parents do. Most strikingly, parents build a relationship with young children that is vastly different from the one many Western parents develop--it's built on cooperation instead of control, trust instead of fear, and personalized needs instead of standardized development milestones.

Maya parents are masters at raising cooperative children. Without resorting to bribes, threats, or chore charts, Maya parents rear loyal helpers by including kids in household tasks from the time they can walk. Inuit parents have developed a remarkably effective approach for teaching children emotional intelligence. When kids cry, hit, or act out, Inuit parents respond with a calm, gentle demeanor that teaches children how to settle themselves down and think before acting. Hadzabe parents are world experts on raising confident, self-driven kids with a simple tool that protects children from stress and anxiety, so common now among American kids.

Not only does Doucleff live with families and observe their techniques firsthand, she also applies them with her own daughter, with striking results. She learns to discipline without yelling. She talks to psychologists, neuroscientists, anthropologists, and sociologists and explains how these strategies can impact children's mental health and development. Filled with practical takeaways that parents can implement immediately, Hunt, Gather, Parent helps us rethink the ways we relate to our children, and reveals a universal parenting paradigm adapted for American families.

Review Quotes


"Hunt, Gather, Parent is full of smart ideas that I immediately wanted to force on my own kids. (I wish I'd read it at the start of the pandemic, when I made their chore charts.) Doucleff is a dogged reporter who's good at observing families and breaking down what they're doing."
--Pamela Druckerman, The New York Times Book Review

"Deeply researched . . . [Doucleff] takes care to portray her subjects not as curiosities 'frozen in time, ' but instead as modern-day families who have held on to invaluable child-rearing techniques that likely date back tens of thousands of years."
--The Atlantic

"Parents: You don't have to go to kid birthday parties anymore! Or awkwardly straddle playground equipment! Or create chore charts! In her funny, honest, and practical book, Michaeleen Doucleff collects ancient wisdom that can restore sanity to parenting."
--Amanda Ripley, New York Times bestselling author of The Smartest Kids in the World and High Conflict

"THIS IS THE PARENTING BOOK I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR!!! Frustrated by the challenges of being a new parent, investigative journalist Michaeleen Doucleff straps her kid on her back and travels thousands of miles to learn why and how indigenous cultures seem to raise kids to be far more skilled, confident, and content than the kids back at home. Armed with respect and curiosity, Doucleff realizes that incessant communication with her child while attempting to control every small thing leads her child to feel anxiety and act out. And that giving a child autonomy while building a loving connection yields highly skilled kids who cooperate, regulate their emotions, and pitch in without waiting to be asked. Smart, humbling, and revealing, Hunt, Gather, Parent should force a re-set of modern American parenting and return a healthier and happier childhood to both parents and children."
--Julie Lythcott-Haims, New York Times bestselling author of How to Raise an Adult and Real American

"Michaeleen Doucleff's Hunt, Gather, Parent breathes a gust of fresh air onto the parenting bookshelf. She gives us a whole new way of looking at raising kids, and it is so beautifully intuitive even as it runs counter to everything we have been taught as Western parents. I loved all the families she introduces us to, the landscapes she brings to life, and her honesty about her relationships with her own daughter. It really does take a village to raise a child, and it is pure joy to follow Michaeleen and Rosy from village to village seeing how it can be done. I can't wait to talk to other parents about this book."
--Angela C. Santomero, creator, head writer, and executive producer of Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood and Blue's Clues, and author of Radical Kindness and Preschool Clues

"Most of our greatest parenting challenges, such as how to instill helpfulness, kindness, and confidence in little ones, aren't problems at all in other cultures. Michaeleen Doucleff travels far and wide to observe firsthand how parents in non-Western societies have successfully nurtured these traits in children for centuries, and she shares their effective strategies in this very readable book. Hunt, Gather, Parent is the new required reading for moms and dads seeking wise and creative solutions to our most vexing parenting dilemmas."
--David F. Lancey, PhD, author of The Anthropology of Childhood and Raising Children: Surprising Insights from Other Cultures

"A lively account of traveling with her three-year-old daughter Rosy 'to the corners of the world' to research parenting techniques . . . Doucleff includes specific and manageable instructions for parents, and end-of-chapter summaries include extra resources. Parents will find Doucleff's curiosity contagious and guidance encouraging."
--Publishers Weekly

"This book is filled with accessible, practical information and anecdotes that can help parents address challenges they may face."
--Jamie Herndon, Book Riot

About The Author

Michaeleen Doucleff is a correspondent for NPR's Science Desk. In 2015, she was part of the team that earned a George Foster Peabody award for its coverage of the Ebola outbreak in West Africa. Prior to joining NPR, Doucleff was an editor at the journal Cell, where she wrote about the science behind pop culture. She has a doctorate in chemistry from the University of California, Berkeley, and a master's degree in viticulture and enology from the University of California, Davis. She lives with her husband and daughter in San Francisco.
Dimensions (Overall): 9 Inches (H) x 6 Inches (W) x 6 Inches (D)
Weight: 1 Pounds
Suggested Age: 22 Years and Up
Number of Pages: 352
Genre: Family + Relationships
Sub-Genre: Parenting
Publisher: Avid Reader Press / Simon & Schuster
Format: Hardcover
Author: Michaeleen Doucleff
Book theme: General
Language: English
Street Date: March 2, 2021
TCIN: 81634003
UPC: 9781982149673
Item Number (DPCI): 059-01-1559
Origin: Made in the USA
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Life saver

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Sadtablelady - 1 year ago
The parenting skills in this book are so different from others. I have read many books about parenting and nothing worked much but this books wisdom is a game changer.
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This Book Is A Hidden Gem

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aqnaq1410 - 2 years ago
I Wish I Read This Book Before My Daughter Was Born But I'm Grateful To Have Found It While She Is Still Young And When I Still Plan To Have More Kids. This Book Is Expertly Written In The Most Down To Earth Engaging Way. This Book Has So Many Practical Pearls Of Wisdom Without Being Patronizing Or Forceful In Opinion. It's Profound Knowledgeable That Will Make Parenting For Me More Enjoyable And Effective.
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5 out of 5 stars
Ilse - 3 years ago, Verified purchaser
This book is fantastic for parents with children of all ages.
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