Siblinghood - by Minaa B (Hardcover)

Book Synopsis

For readers of Drama Free and The Origins of You, popular mental health educator Minaa B., LMSW, explores one of our most influential yet least examined family bonds: adult sibling relationships.

Do you ever wonder why it can be so hard to get along with your siblings, even as adults? Maybe you're the eldest daughter, frustrated that you're still emotionally caring for your siblings. Maybe your parents still favor your younger sibling who is the golden child and can do no wrong. Or maybe you just aren't that close to your siblings, and feel grief over the bond that never formed.

Siblinghood is a compassionate guide to understanding, navigating, and healing our complex relationships with our adult siblings--whether we're close, estranged, or somewhere in between. Blending personal experience, insight, and psychological expertise, Minaa explores how sibling bonds are shaped, exploring birth order, gender roles, family systems, cultural customs, and shared trauma. With warmth and realness, Siblinghood gives readers the tools to reflect on their childhood, the patterns they inherited, and most importantly, equips readers to find peace in whatever sibling relationship they currently have.

Siblinghood will show you:

• How birth order and family roles shape our sibling dynamics (are you the "scapegoat" blamed for all the family's problems or the eldest son expected to provide for the family?)
• Strategies for managing sibling relationships impacted by trauma and mental health conditions, like setting boundaries with your narcissistic sibling or practicing radical acceptance of the sibling struggling with an addiction
• The difference between sibling rivalry and sibling abuse (and why we aren't talking about this enough)
• Tips for navigating low contact relationships and sibling estrangement; and
• How to thoughtfully create chosen siblings and seek out healthy, meaningful relationships

Whether you're seeking reconciliation, trying to set boundaries, or simply looking to understand your siblings better, this book offers a path forward rooted in acceptance and self-compassion.

About the Author

Minaa B. is a mental health educator, therapist, and the author of Owning Our Struggles. She is also the founder of I'm So Mature, a media company that bridges pop culture, music, and personal healing.
As a sought-after mental health educator, Minaa helps brands, universities, and organizations bridge the gap between mental health, culture, and community. Through dynamic workshops, keynotes, and consulting, she makes mental health education engaging, relatable, and transformative, leveraging the power of media, entertainment, and personal healing to spark meaningful change.
Minaa's expertise has been featured in Katie Couric Media, Oprah Daily, Essence, and Today.com, and she has appeared on Red Table Talk, BBC, and other major platforms. In addition to serving on the Mental Health Advisory Committee for Wondermind, a mental health platform co-founded by Selena Gomez, she is a relationship expert for eharmony and the host of the podcast Mindful With Minaa.