Here Be Dragons - by Melanie Shankle (Hardcover)

About the Book

"A poignant, personal guide for trusting God to heal generational wounds so you can be a strong, loving presence for your teenage daughter-from the New York Times bestselling author of Nobody's Cuter than You"--

Book Synopsis

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER - ECPA AWARD WINNER - From the author of Nobody's Cuter than You and co-author (with her daughter, Caroline Shankle) of The Lion and the Bear comes a poignant, deeply personal story about trusting God to heal generational wounds so we can show up for our teenage girls.

"Written with the kindness and honesty of a big sister, the candor of a best friend, and the humility and grace of one whose heart points us to the One who saved her from all the dragons."--Sissy Goff, author of The Worry-Free Parent

Medieval cartographers marked maps with "Here Be Dragons" to warn of unknown dangers ahead, and now Melanie Shankle humorously applies this to raising teenage daughters. Navigating the tumultuous teenage years can be daunting, with mean girls, dramatic breakups, and self-worth struggles often occurring in a single day. As a mom, you might long for a guide to help you through these unpredictable times.

When her daughter, Caroline, faced high school challenges, Melanie felt overwhelmed. She embarked on a journey to break the vicious cycles rooted in her past, realizing that to help Caroline face her dragons, she first needed to confront her own. In Here Be Dragons, Melanie candidly explores past struggles and generational wounds that shaped her approach to parenting. With deep insight and empathy, she demonstrates how facing your own dragons empowers you to help your daughter confront hers.

Here Be Dragons is a heartfelt--and aptly humorous--source of camaraderie and practical advice for those feeling overwhelmed by raising a teenage daughter. It serves as a road map to thriving amid chaos and trusting God to transform you into a healthier woman, mom, wife, and friend. Laugh, cry, and find solidarity in Melanie's transformative journey as you embrace your own path toward building an unbreakable mother-daughter bond and a more empowered future together.

Review Quotes

"Looking back on my thirty years of counseling girls and families, I believe it's never been harder to be a girl--or to raise one. Much of the difficulty results from what our girls are encountering, and much stems from what we encountered--or didn't--during our own growing-up years. Raising a teenager to be emotionally and socially healthy can feel like a daunting and insurmountable task--since we didn't have a road map to achieve this ourselves. But it doesn't have to be, especially if we have friends a little farther down the road, who are willing to be honest about their own fears and failings, as well as the truth and hope they've found along the way. Melanie Shankle is such a friend. Here Be Dragons is written with the kindness and honesty of a big sister, the candor of a best friend, and the humility and grace of one whose heart is to point us to the One who has saved her from all the dragons."--Sissy Goff, M.Ed., LPC-MHSP, executive director of Daystar Counseling and bestselling author of The Worry-Free Parent

"Girl moms have waited a long time for this guidance, and Melanie Shankle delivers it with integrity, wisdom, and perfectly timed humor. How do you handle mean girls without becoming one too? How do you rise above the childhood trauma inflicted by your own mother? In an age in which many families must navigate toxic relationships--inside their home and outside it, too--this book offers clarity, hope, and a carefully discerned road map on how best to move forward. Melanie is living proof that a healthy family can come from you, even if you don't come from a healthy family--and that peace is possible when God is your guide. I found myself crying and cheering for Melanie and her daughter as they learned to stand up for themselves, stop the mean-girl cycle, and still choose kindness. The generational impact of Here Be Dragons can't be overstated."--Kari Kampakis, author of Love Her Well and host of the Girl Mom podcast

"It's no secret that Melanie and I are close friends--we've done a podcast together for an obnoxious number of years, after all--and that is how I know that this isn't the book Melanie intended to write. She planned to write primarily about the importance of healing, without focusing too much on the pain of the breaking. But as Melanie started to unearth the layers of her own story, it was clear to those of us who know her best that the Lord was giving her fresh compassion, not just for what she experienced in her own family but also for the ways generational wounds can linger in so many of our lives. Melanie responded to this compassion with courage and candor, and as a result, you are going to see a side of her life you have likely not known before. While it may break your heart a little bit, this book will also make you laugh, will challenge you, and will point you again and again to the Source of our hope and redemption. Here Be Dragons is Melanie's very best writing to date: honest, tender, and full of hope. I'm so proud of her for sharing this part of her story. We're so fortunate that we get to read it."--Sophie Hudson, co-host of The Big Boo Cast and bestselling author of A Fine Sight to See

About the Author

Melanie Shankle is the New York Times bestselling author of Sparkly Green Earrings, The Antelope in the Living Room, and Nobody's Cuter Than You. She speaks at events nationwide and co-hosts the wildly popular podcast, The Big Boo Cast. Melanie and her husband, Perry, live in San Antonio, Texas, and are the parents of Caroline.