Compulsively Yours - by Allison Raskin (Paperback)

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"Compulsively Yours is a refreshing rom com that made me laugh out loud. Raskin handled the themes of grief and mental illness with respect, humor, and of course, love." --Joss Richard, bestselling author of It's Different This Time

PRAISE FOR SAVE THE DATE

"Emma's search to find her new Mr. Right will have readers in stitches, while her efforts to manage her own mental-health challenges, including anxiety, will resonate with readers dealing with their own emotionally messy lives. Raskin delivers a splendidly entertaining love story that is equal measures humorous and heartfelt." --Booklist

"Raskin charms in this modern marriage of convenience romance...It's a fun premise and Raskin does a great job surrounding Emma with a wacky cast and realistically depicting the challenges of modern dating. Sparkling dialogue, plentiful humor, and a heavy dose of Emma's couple's counselor wisdom make this a treat." --Publisher's Weekly

"A frothy romp that doesn't take itself too seriously, despite the endearing earnestness of its main character." -Kirkus Reviews

"Whip-smart, subversive, and infinitely charming. An ode to the beautifully messy work of falling in love on purpose." --Becky Albertalli, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda

"At once raw, charming, messy, and heartfelt, Save the Date capitalizes on its hooky premise to tell a deep story about tenaciously going after the life you want. With fantastic romantic tension, delightfully well-drawn side characters, and a protagonist to cheer for, Raskin crafts a stunning debut and is absolutely a new romance author to watch." --Emma R. Alban, USA TODAY bestselling author of Don't Want You Like a Best Friend

"Laugh-out-loud funny and searingly vulnerable, Save the Date is for the hopeful romantics, the wary romantics, and the romantics who throw caution to the wind. A captivating tale about a woman who isn't afraid to go after her happy ending, even if it means defying her own expectations in the process." --Alina Khawaja, author of Maya's Laws of Love

"Save the Date is funny, relatable and beautifully told. With an unforgettable cast of loveable characters not only will it make you laugh, think and feel, but it might just change your life. Allison Raskin sweeps you up on a joy-filled journey, offering a profound insight into love, values and authenticity along the way. This is a must-read and I challenge you not to have a warmer, happier heart by the end of it. I absolutely adored this book and I already miss it." --Tessa Bickers, USA TODAY bestselling author of The Book Swap

PRAISE FOR ALLISON RASKIN'S NON-FICTION

I DO (I THINK)

"In this fascinating and deeply personal book, Raskin provides a fresh look at what it takes to build a healthy marriage in the modern dating world. She boldly delves into critical matters that most relationship books ignore--including the role of mental health, gender identity, financial strain, and sexual preferences. Raskin's expansive perspective creates a more inclusive view of marriage and encourages readers to craft a personalized vision of marriage, a bespoke partnership tailored to each partner's unique history, preferences, and needs." --Ty Tashiro, PhD, author of The Science of Happily Ever After

"Marriage norms and exceptions in today's society are rapidly changing and it can be hard to keep up. Allison Raskin's book unpacks the questions and uncertainties around marriage that so many of us have, while interweaving colorful stories of real-life couples that help bring these insights to life. I Do (I Think) is a must-read for anyone and everyone that may be curious about the intricacies of modern marriage." --Nick Viall, TV Personality, Host of The Viall Files, and Bestselling Author

"As a woman who has never crossed the three year mark in a relationship, you can trust that I know how to ignore great relationship advice when I read it, and Allison Raskin has some of the very best. Her writing is so funny and so thoughtful, and eased me into a view of marriage I had never considered." --Jamie Loftus, New York Times bestselling author of Raw Dog

"Allison Raskin's I Do (I Think) brilliantly captures the essence of modern relationships with humor and insight. With her wit, depth, and relatability, Raskin invites us into a candid exploration of what it means to choose a life partner in today's ever-changing social landscape. This is an essential read in understanding the intricacies of human connection, offering a fresh perspective on marriage that both challenges and comforts its readers." --Jessica Baum, LMHC, author of Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love

"I Do (I Think) isn't just about marriage; the book provides actionable advice for anyone navigating romantic relationships at any stage. Allison illustrates that, for the most part, we're all fundamentally good people doing our best, but our baggage, past trauma, and mental illnesses impede us. That's why she approaches marriage and all relationships with empathy, understanding, and curiosity. She acknowledges that while we can't predict what will happen in the future, we can choose to be honest with ourselves and communicative with our partner(s)." --Zachary Zane, author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto

OVERTHINKING ABOUT YOU

"Allison Raskin is a warm hug in the world of mental health. She reminds us that this life is meant to be enjoyed and to never give up on love because we all are more than deserving of it. This book is going to save relationships!" --Kelsey Darragh, author of Don'​t F*cking Panic: The Shit They Don't Tell You in Therapy About Anxiety Disorder, Panic Attacks, and Depression

"Romance and love can press all the buttons for overthinkers, denying us what we ultimately crave. Thank you, Allison, for being the brave soul to finally show us we can do both--fret and share a healthy intimate connection with another awesome human!" --Sarah Wilson, New York Times bestselling author of First, We Make the Beast Beautiful

"A warm and thoughtful guide to an under-discussed topic." --Mara Wilson, writer and actor

"This invaluable and empowering primer delivers on its promise to help readers date while struggling with mental illness." --Publishers Weekly

"A quick, quippy book that can be read in an afternoon. The thing I liked most was Raskin's observation that we're allowed to be works in progress, and that if you're prone to overthink, it doesn't mean you can't or shouldn't be in love." --Boston Globe

"Raskin's book is a powerful reminder that while mental health can be all-consuming, it doesn't define you--and it certainly doesn't have to define your relationships." --Teen Vogue