Helping Her Get Free - by Susan Brewster (Paperback)

About the Book

Previously titled: To be an anchor in the storm.

Book Synopsis

Seal Press originally published Helping Her Get Free with the title To Be an Anchor in the Storm. Almost ten years after its original publication, this groundbreaking and practical guide remains a wise, informed, and vital resource for those who want to assist a friend or loved one in her struggle to escape an abusive relationship.

Susan Brewster, a longtime psychotherapist whose practice includes working with abused women and their families, recognizes that friends and family need specific tools and ideas to help them develop a relationship with their abused loved one that will ultimately benefit her, not control her. As the survivor of an abusive relationship herself, Brewster teaches readers how to recognize the signs of abuse, handle negative feelings, become an effective advocate, deal with the abuser, and more.

With a new introduction and updated resource section, this straightforward and compassionate book is just as timely and important as ever, offering the information needed to give strength to women who are trying to break free.

Review Quotes

Many books address the issue of battered women, but this is perhaps the first that is meant to help those who want to help. Library Journal"


Many books address the issue of battered women, but this is perhaps the first that is meant to help those who want to help. "Library Journal""


"Many books address the issue of battered women, but this is perhaps the first that is meant to help those who want to help." --"Library Journal"

About the Author

Susan Brewster has been a clinical social worker/psychotherapist for 26 years, ten of which have been devoted to working specifically in the area of domestic violence. She lives with her husband and two children in New Mexico, where she is in private practice.