Loveable - by Amber Rae (Hardcover)

About the Book

"Good wives don't fall in love with other men. That's what Amber Rae told herself when, in the midst of building a home with her husband in Mexico, she met the man she knew she was meant to spend the rest of her life with. Maybe in another life, she thought. But the truth was, for years, she smiled and strived her way through a sexless and lonely marriage, never admitting her unhappiness to anyone--not even to herself. She thought that if she just tried harder, everything would fall into place. But as the voice inside her grew louder, she realized she had two choices: keep pretending everything's fine and her needs don't matter, or confront everything she thought she knew about love, loyalty, and her own limits. LOVEABLE is a raw and intimate journey of a woman breaking free from the roles that confined her. This memoir isn't about trading one life or one man for another--it's about the painful, beautiful process of coming home to oneself. And this isn't just Amber's story--it's a rallying cry to stop being good so you can start being free"--Provided by publisher.

Book Synopsis

Good wives don't fall in love with other men. That's what Amber Rae told herself when, in the midst of building a home with her husband in Mexico, she met the man she knew she was meant to spend the rest of her life with.

Maybe in another life, she thought. But the truth was, for years, she smiled and strived her way through a sexless and lonely marriage, never admitting her unhappiness to anyone--not even to herself. She thought that if she just tried harder, everything would fall into place. But as the voice inside her grew louder, she realized she had two choices: keep pretending everything's fine and her needs don't matter, or confront everything she thought she knew about love, loyalty, and her own limits.

LOVEABLE is a raw and intimate journey of a woman breaking free from the roles that confined her. This memoir isn't about trading one life or one man for another--it's about the painful, beautiful process of coming home to oneself. And this isn't just Amber's story―it's a rallying cry to stop being good so you can start being free.

Review Quotes

"Loveable is the permission slip we all need to shed the conditioning that keeps us stuck. Amber Rae's words are as raw as they are liberating, showing us how to choose ourselves." --Jillian Turecki, New York Times bestselling author of It Begins with You

"Some books you can't put down because the story is that good. Others wake you up to the person you're meant to become. In Loveable, Amber Rae accomplishes both. This book is a revelation--raw, transformative, and deeply inspiring." --Terri Cole, psychotherapist and author of Too Much

"A riveting story that will nudge you closer to standing in your truth. If you are looking for encouragement to change, love deeply, and choose emotional liberation, this book is for you." --Alex Elle, New York Times bestselling author of How We Heal

"Amber Rae's Loveable is more than a book--it's a master guide on liberation. For women everywhere who are afraid to live their most authentic, bravest and heart-led lives, consider these pages your invitation, your homecoming and your activation to the life you've meant to have all along." --Jessica Zweig, bestselling author of The Light Work

"Loveable is a powerful blend of memoir and guidebook that will captivate you from the very first page. With raw vulnerability and unflinching honesty, Rae takes readers on a transformative journey of self-discovery and courage. She opens up about her own struggles, triumphs, and the deeply personal lessons she's learned on her path to embracing her true self. Written for anyone who dreams of living and loving authentically, Loveable is a call to shed old patterns, face the fears that hold us back, and step into a life that feels deeply aligned with who we truly are. Through Rae's beautiful storytelling, you'll find yourself not only inspired but empowered to honor your own desires and intuition, even if it means defying societal expectations. This is more than just a book--it's a manifesto for the brave souls ready to live from the heart and make their mark on the world. Loveable will leave you feeling seen, validated, and ready to step boldly into your most courageous life." --Vienna Pharaon, bestselling author of The Origins of You

"Loveable isn't just a memoir--it's a mirror. It reflects the truths that so many of us are afraid to face and encourages us to embrace the messy, yet exquisite truth of who we are. Rae takes us on a deeply personal and riveting journey of transformation, weaving vulnerable stories from her childhood and marriage to provide us with profound wisdom. She reminds us that it is never too late to own our life's story...or to rewrite it to be in alignment with our authentic selves. For anyone who's ever felt unworthy or out of alignment with their true self, Loveable is a reminder that we are the ones who set ourselves free. It is a must read for anyone ready to rewrite their story with courage and compassion." --Krista Williams, author and host of Almost30

"Loveable is an invitation toward your truth, and you won't be the same after you read it. Amber's words courageously share the awkward, hard, emotional, but worthy climb back to yourself. Loveable is a written expression of what liberating yourself looks and feels like. She's captured the essence of performing - for society, for family, for self - and shown what it means to rewrite those stories for your good. If you're on a journey of rediscovery, Loveable is a companion like none other, because Amber's raw testimony leaves no leaf unturned. One of the most honest books I've ever read about learning to love yourself out loud." --Yasmine Cheyenne, author of The Sugar Jar and Wisdom of the Path

"This book is a revolutionary act! With poignancy and grace, Amber Rae shares her story of shedding trauma and programming to become more and more of her true self. I hung on every word! Let her courage show you the way to your very own liberation." --Kris Ferraro, Energy Healer and author of Manifesting, Your Difference Is Your Strength, and Energy Healing

"The perfect love is one that includes honesty, loyalty, integrity and intuition--a love that Amber Rae first discovers within. Loveable is the perfect example of a love well-lived and being alive in love!" --Annemarie Heckert, author of Enlightened

About the Author

AMBER RAE is a bestselling author and speaker best known for books Choose Wonder Over Worry and The Answers Are Within You. She's also the creator of The Feelings Journal, a tool that transforms the way you engage with your emotions. Her writing and illustrations reach 9M people per month, and her work has been featured in publications such as The New York Times, New York Magazine, TODAY, SELF, Fortune, Forbes, and Entrepreneur. As a keynote speaker and teacher, Amber has worked with companies such as Kate Spade, Meta, Microsoft, and TED. Amber lives in Brooklyn with her husband John.