Behind Every Smile - by Natatia Benae Vanellison (Paperback)

About the Book

Behind Every Smile sheds light on the hidden effects of domestic violence, emotional abuse, and trauma. In this compelling guide, award-winning educator Natatia Vanellison weaves personal stories with professional insight to help readers recognize what so often remains unseen. From the shadows of a painful childhood to the surface of adult life, she reveals how trauma can manifest behind the most confident smiles--and how we can notice, support, and uplift those affected. Readers will gain clarity, empathy, and tools for becoming stronger allies to those healing from trauma.

Book Synopsis

Behind Every Smile was created to inform and empower parents, educators, advocates, and survivors by shedding light on the often-hidden effects of domestic violence, emotional abuse, and trauma.

In this deeply personal and professional guide, Natatia Vanellison--a seasoned educator, speaker, and leadership coach--shares her journey through childhood trauma and adult healing. With clarity, compassion, and courage, she helps readers understand how trauma shapes behavior, identity, and relationships across a lifetime.

From the outward appearance of confidence to the internal struggle to feel seen, Natatia reveals what's often hidden behind high-achieving masks. She offers real-life stories, insights from her work in education and psychology, and gentle wisdom for those seeking to recognize the signs of trauma in others.

Readers will explore:
- How traumatic experiences shape identity and behavior
- The lingering impact of childhood emotional wounds in adulthood
- Subtle signs someone may be silently struggling
- Practical ways to offer support and foster emotional safety

Behind Every Smile invites readers to become better allies--people who see the signs, hear the silence, and help others feel safe enough to heal. Whether you're a parent, teacher, friend, or survivor yourself, this book offers a compassionate path forward and a reminder that healing is possible.

This is more than a book--it's a call to truly see and support the stories hidden in plain sight.

About the Author

Founder and CEO, NaTaTiaCoaching, LLC(TM) Award-Winning Educator Distinguished Toastmaster (DTM) Certified Virtual Presenter (CVP) Transformational Speaker Author
Natatia Vanellison is an award-winning educator, leadership mentor, and transformational career coach with over thirty-one years of experience. The Founder and CEO of NaTaTiaCoaching, LLC(TM), she is dedicated to empowering women over forty who feel unseen, unheard and undervalued in their careers.
Through her signature coaching programs--the R.I.S.E. Leadership Accelerator(TM) and the Synergy Empowerment Leadership Accelerator(TM)--she equips leaders with the confidence, strategies and resilience to rise to their full potential.
As a Distinguished Toastmaster (DTM) and Certified Virtual Presenter (CVP), she has a deep passion for public speaking, leadership development and empowering women to use their voices with confidence. She has chartered three Toastmasters clubs, including one designed to prepare speakers and empower women leaders through storytelling, executive presence, and strategic communication.
Throughout her extensive career in education, she worked in leadership development, mentoring both high school students and adults to cultivate confidence, resilience and professional impact. Her dedication to education and leadership has earned prestigious awards, further solidifying her role as a recognized expert in mentoring, coaching and professional development.
She is a founding member of The Book Academy(R), established by four-time New York Times bestselling author and TEDx speaker Luvvie Ajayi Jones. Having successfully graduated from all three of Luvvie's cohort programs, she is now part of the Alumni Accelerator Program, an exclusive initiative for advanced authors.
Beyond her professional endeavors, she is deeply grateful for the unwavering support of her husband, whom she lovingly describes as "the most supportive husband on the planet." His encouragement has been an anchor throughout her tumultuous journey, reinforcing her mission to empower others to be seen, heard, and valued.