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How Not to Fit in - by Jess Joy & Charlotte Mia (Paperback)

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  • 'The lack of information around how ADHD and autism shows up in adults means that many of us have been assuming we were anxious, not working hard enough, or just entirely failing altogether.'
  • 8.5" x 5.31" Paperback
  • 352 Pages
  • Young Adult Nonfiction, Disabilities & Special Needs

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About the Book



'The lack of information around how ADHD and autism shows up in adults means that many of us have been assuming we were anxious, not working hard enough, or just entirely failing altogether.' - Jess Joy and Charlotte Mia



Book Synopsis



'The lack of information around how ADHD and autism shows up in adults means that many of us have been assuming we were anxious, not working hard enough, or just entirely failing altogether.' - Jess Joy and Charlotte Mia

Written by two late-diagnosed neurodivergent women and the founders of fast-growing online community @IAmPayingAttention, HOW NOT TO FIT IN is an handbook-meets-rallying cry.

Foregrounding real experiences with autism and ADHD, this book explores the journey of discovering, accepting and flourishing with your neurodivergent brain. It explores why getting diagnosis can be so fraught and gendered, and how to navigate a world which centres neurotypical brains in the realms of relationships, careers, friendships and finances.

By reading this book, you'll:

  • Start to understand why so many people are being diagnosed with ADHD and autism right now
  • Learn the impact that not knowing your own brain can have on your mental health
  • Find the confidence to ask for accommodations and adjustments at work - without apologising
  • Have the chance to note down how this journey is evolving for you in chapter-by-chapter workbook sections.
  • ... and, most importantly, get to know yourself and your needs better.
    Featuring the latest research and thinking on neurodivergence, contributions from dozens of experts and the real stories of people just like you, this innovative book - which has been written and designed especially for *spicy* brains - is essential reading for anyone whose brain seems to see the world in a different way.



About the Author



Best friends of a decade Jess Joy and Charlotte Mia founded the Instagram platform @IAmPayingAttention in October 2020 and in the three years since have fostered a community of nearly 100k people. They both identify as late-diagnosed neurodivergent women.

Dimensions (Overall): 8.5 Inches (H) x 5.31 Inches (W) x 1.25 Inches (D)
Weight: .74 Pounds
Sub-Genre: Disabilities & Special Needs
Genre: Young Adult Nonfiction
Number of Pages: 352
Publisher: Thorsons
Format: Paperback
Author: Jess Joy & Charlotte Mia
Language: English
Street Date: November 4, 2025
TCIN: 1002293394
UPC: 9780008687021
Item Number (DPCI): 247-35-4861
Origin: Made in the USA or Imported
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Estimated ship dimensions: 1.25 inches length x 5.31 inches width x 8.5 inches height
Estimated ship weight: 0.74 pounds
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