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Highlights
- "I loved this book for its wisdom, message, and welcome, its depth and its many charms, especially the clear and deeply human voice of the author, Pastor Kate.
- Author(s): Kate Haynes Murphy
- 256 Pages
- Religion + Beliefs, Christian Life
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About the Book
Living faithfully in a culture of violence, hierarchy, and supremacy means following Jesus into weakness, loss, and even despair. In this indelible book of spiritual formation, pastor Kate Murphy asks: What if the abundant life lies in finding what's been lost, uncovering what is hidden, and learning to hope in what is small?Book Synopsis
"I loved this book for its wisdom, message, and welcome, its depth and its many charms, especially the clear and deeply human voice of the author, Pastor Kate." --ANNE LAMOTT
In this stirring book of spiritual formation, a pastor asks: What if the abundant life lies in finding what's been lost, uncovering what is hidden, and learning to hope in what is small?
The Christian industrial complex teaches us that whatever is centered, celebrated, and large is a movement of God, and that Jesus is at work in existing structures. So why are we surprised that many churches are obsessed with power, size, and reputation--and that people are leaving them in droves?
Jesus warned us not to expect his reign to resemble the empire. He knew it would be hard for us to recognize true faithfulness, so he gave us sacred stories. In parables we learn of lost coins and sheep and people being found, of hidden treasure being uncovered, and of small and weak things that heal and transform. In the tradition of clergy writers like Barbara Brown Taylor and Gregory Boyle, pastor Kate Murphy excavates the wisdom of Jesus's parables. She tells stories of failures in the dominant church, of broken places within herself, and of an exploding watermelon that sends her over the edge. Through practices like shalom, kinship, surrender, failure, and humility, we find our lost selves in Christ, seek a God who hides, and see the glory of infinitesimal things.
Living faithfully in a culture of violence, hierarchy, and supremacy, Murphy maintains, means following Jesus into weakness, loss, and even despair. But this is not some bitter prescription for a dying church. It's the story of how sometimes what seems undesirable actually satisfies. Sometimes what looks as if it will diminish you ends up being what saves. Sometimes following the way of Jesus means letting yourself be astounded by the authentic grace of what is lost, hidden, and small.
Review Quotes
"I loved this book for its wisdom, message and welcome, its depth and its many charms, especially the clear and deeply human voice of the author, Pastor Kate. --Anne Lamott, New York Times bestselling author
"I have had the pleasure of being Kate Murphy's friend for nearly a quarter century. A conversation with Kate always makes me feel selfish. I know that I am not the only person who needs her deep pastoral and scriptural wisdom, wicked humor, and poetic sensibility. You have in your hands the gift of a conversation with one of our finest pastors. She means to change your mind about whom to value and what to value if you have cast your lot with that strange healer, exorcist, and preacher we call Jesus. Our world is being turned upside down before us. Kate means to do the same, but in the interest of beauty, humanity, and the fulfillment of God's dream for creation. May it be so." --Rev. Dr. William H. Lamar IV, pastor of Metropolitan AME Church and author of Ancestors
"Kate Haynes Murphy is a kind shepherd--and she is also a storyteller who kindles flames that fan into fire, burning down the illusions we've built around our faith, our lives, and God. With reckless abandon, she enchants us to reimagine the way we see Christ, the way we see others, and--especially--the way we see ourselves. In Lost, Hidden, Small, she dares us to forsake all we ever thought we knew for the sake of facing the truth of our lostness . . . and finding the One we can never lose." --Rachel Marie Kang, author of Let There Be Art and The Matter of Little Losses and founder of The Fallow House
"Walter Brueggemann has written about how the true work of ministry is rejecting the dominant cultural script--what he calls therapeutic, technological, consumeristic militarism--and living by the counter-script of God. Kate Haynes Murphy casts a similar vision and invites us to embrace an appropriately uncomfortable counter-script that challenges typical American ways of viewing church. Murphy vulnerably recounts her own faith and leadership journey; the temptation to desire a church that is large, in charge, and the talk of the town; and the humbling discovery that the way of Jesus often leads in the opposite direction. This book is an honest and encouraging saga of how someone who feels like a train wreck can participate in the subversive script and ministry of God. It's an invitation to find kinship and delight in the league of holy losers." --Wesley Vander Lugt, theologian and author of Beauty Is Oxygen: Finding a Faith That Breathes