Pay No Mind - by Fallon Rowe (Paperback)

Book Synopsis

A Memoir of Grit, Survival, and Defying Limits

At nineteen, Fallon Rowe was swept into a whirlwind romance with a charismatic new climbing partner, leaving behind her geology studies in northern Utah for an expedition that would change her life forever. Together, they set out for Patagonia to climb the legendary Fitz Roy--a peak far beyond her experience level. But what began as an adventure quickly spiraled into chaos, marked by illness, violence, run-ins with Argentinian police, and a toxic relationship that tested her endurance in ways she never imagined.

Returning to Utah, Fallon found herself trapped--isolated, broke, and physically and emotionally drained. As her partner's untreated bipolar disorder drove their world into further turmoil, she fought to reclaim her identity and freedom. "Pay No Mind" is an unflinching account of survival, addiction, and the battle to escape both a dangerous relationship and the limits imposed by fear. In climbing, as in life, the hardest route is often the one that leads to freedom.

Fallon Rowe is an accomplished writer, climber, and advocate for survivors of abuse. Her writing captures the complexities of trauma, healing, and the exhilarating freedom found in the natural world. With her unique voice and authentic perspective, Rowe has received accolades for her ability to inspire and connect with readers on a deeply personal level.

Readers drawn to stories of resilience, adventure, and survival will find Pay No Mind both riveting and transformative. Rowe's journey is an inspiration to anyone who has faced adversity and fought to reclaim their life. With its blend of breathtaking adventure and emotional depth, this book is perfect for fans of memoirs that challenge, uplift, and ultimately empower.

Review Quotes

"Far more than just another climbing book, this is a raw and unflinching look at the mental and emotional terrain that parallels the physical world we all experience in our adventures. It can be uncomfortable at times, but that's the type of writing we need more of in this industry."--Tom Randall, climber

"In Pay No Mind, Fallon Rowe confronts subjects that mountain literature has only rarely addressed in the past: the dangers of intimate partner violence and sexual assault. With awe-inspiring courage, she describes how the journey to escape an abusive relationship can be more hazardous and arduous than any alpine climb. And with raw, powerful stories, she evokes what it means to regain freedom in the hills and in the rest of life."--Katie Ives, author of Imaginary Peaks: The Riesenstein Hoax and Other Mountain Dreams

"Pay No Mind is a powerful and honest account of how a passionate climbing life became entwined with a deeply manipulative relationship. Fallon does an exceptional job showing the gradual ways someone can be pulled into abuse, painting her decision making with nuance and clarity that really resonated with me. As a climber, I also appreciated her vivid descriptions of the places she visited from Southern Utah to Patagonia. Coincidentally, it seems our paths may have possibly crossed during some of her adventures. That added a layer of meaning to the story, reminding me how little we may know about what someone is going through, even when they're right in front of us. This book stayed with me long after I put it down."--Brette Harrington, climber

This courageous memoir is a powerful reminder that we are not alone, and that we have the power to move on - no matter how stuck we may feel. It will encourage readers to take a shrewd look at their own relationships and inspire them to do anything possible to avoid what Rowe has suffered.

Chris Weidner, writer and climber

About the Author

Fallon Rowe, who now resides in St. George, Utah, close to Zion National Park, grew up in Idaho, then earned her geology degree at Utah State University. She thrives with multiple identities: dirtbag climber, high school science teacher, writer, geoscience researcher, photographer, climbing coach, and guide. Since 2017, she's been a sponsored rock climber with support from multiple brands, allowing her to live out her adventure dreams. Rock climbing has been the central focus of her life since 2003, but she has persisting passion for nature, science, literature, and Stoic philosophy.

John Long was an original member of the legendary "Stonemasters," a core group of California climbers who lit the fuse on the modern adventure sports revolution. His incredible feats include the first one-day ascent of El Capitan in Yosemite Valley.