They're Not Gaslighting You - by Isabelle Morley (Paperback)

About the Book

Relationships are hard enough without turning every disagreement into a therapy session. These days, it seems like every argument comes with a side of psychobabble - whether it's pulled from a psych 101 textbook, self-growth podcast, online forum, or "viral" therapy video. Suddenly, normal relationship hiccups are diagnosed as full-blown disorders, and the result? We're writing people off or cutting them out of our lives and calling it #boundaries. Here's the truth: No one is perfect. We're complex beings with pasts and emotional baggage, and sometimes communicating effectively with other humans is hard. It doesn't mean everyone's toxic or a narcissist or bipolar or gaslighting you. In They're Not Gaslighting You, expert couples therapist and clinical psychologist Dr. Isabelle Morley sheds light on all the messy, frustrating, and sometimes downright harmful ways "therapy speak" has taken over our relationships. She'll explain why throwing around clinical terms and armchair diagnoses robs us of the intimacy, empathy, and growth that make relationships worth having in the first place. Through warmth, wit, and practical advice, Dr. Morley will help you ditch the labels and focus on what really matters: being present, curious, and compassionate, even (especially) when things get hard. After all, your partner, your friends, your family - they're not case studies. They're people. So, if you're ready to stop pathologizing your loved ones and start actually connecting with them, They're Not Gaslighting You is the book you didn't know you needed.

About the Author

Isabelle Morley, PsyD, is a clinical psychologist and EFT-certified couples therapist (emotionally focused therapy). She is a contributing author to Psychology Today in her blog Love Them or Leave Them. She has also been featured in The New Yorker, The Boston Globe, Business Insider, Vox, and VeryWell Mind, among others. In philanthropic work, Dr. Morley is a founding board member of The Unscripted Cast Advocacy Network (UCAN) Foundation. She has a private practice providing couples therapy and intensives in the Boston area.