Tidying the Abyss - by Amanda Dodson (Hardcover)

Book Synopsis

A gentle, hands-on resource offering mental health-sensitive, disability-informed advice for those who do not have the privilege, bandwidth, or access to keep their home--and life--in a perfectly-ordered state.

When we see people in desperate situations, we are quick to sympathize but also quick to explain to ourselves why that couldn't be us. We could never live in squalor--we're just too responsible! We could never get a disabling illness that prevents us from easily enacting life skills--we're always so good about exercising and taking our supplements! And we certainly couldn't spend our lives in endless, menial suffering--we plan to be blessed!
But the truth is, desperation and chaos are just a few unfortunate events away for any of us. Keeping your life clean, orderly, and peaceful involves skill, but it also involves privilege, luck, and having access to a responsible adult with the bandwidth to teach you. Even then, responsibility does not save us from chaos. And when our lives are upended, our dishes, our laundry, and our bills mercilessly persist, piling around us, an oppressive burden.
In Tidying the Abyss one-time clinical social worker and current professional organizer Amanda Dodson provides a gentle, step-by-step guide to keeping house even when one's life is turned upside-down by an unexpected and permanent change to their, or a loved-one's, ability. Dodson advocates for the abandoning of perfection to make room for creative, livable solutions, no matter where one falls on the spectrum of being chronically ill, neurodivergent, or hopeless at home maintenance.

About the Author

Amanda Stuckey Dodson, LCSW, is a clinical social worker, professional organizer, and artist. Amanda trained as a psychodynamic therapist, with a specialization in eating disorders and trauma. She worked in a variety of settings as a social worker, focusing on creative interventions and existential meaning-making. In 2021, Amanda created her business, Nesting, to fill an underserved niche: functional organizing for people with mental illness, developmental disorders, and chronic physical conditions. Her TikTok channel, @nestingyourlife, gained her a reputation as a compassionate fixer for a range of cleaning, organizing, and administrative woes. Amanda is a sought-after organization coach, helping chronically disorganized clients across the world create order in their lives.