Anger is OKAY Violence is NOT - (1618622277) by Julie K Federico (Paperback)

About the Book

This is a book for children struggling with tantrums. Children who are living with domestic violence and involved with child protective services. My goal is to educate children about what is violence and how to report it.

Book Synopsis

Julie Federico is a prevention expert who writes children's books on, child abuse, domestic violence, school violence prevention, friendship, and race relations. All of her books are a must-read for every child. Julie takes complex social problems and breaks them down into language that even the youngest of readers can understand. Her books are for readers 0-9 years old. Each book is the tip of the iceberg when discussing the issue. Julie opens the door and explains difficult topics in a friendly, non-threatening way. She uses language to protect children and keep them from harm and danger. Parents will appreciate her straightforward message; kids will appreciate her laid-back approach to the most difficult of topics. All of her books are illustrated in a welcoming fish theme. Two of her seven books have been translated into Spanish.

Anger is OKAY, Violence is NOT, written by Julie Federico and illustrated by Glori Alexander, is a thoughtful, much-needed addition to pre-school teachers' and social workers' libraries. With vibrant, TV-cartoon-like illustrations and simple, direct text appropriate for even the youngest children, this picture book explores the complexity and vitality of anger, and when it is appropriately expressed and when it is not.

True emotional intelligence is something recognized and respected but rarely taught and discussed, even among adults. The goal of this worthy project is to engage children in a safe, non-threatening exploration of complicated, often-frightening feelings. Federico lets kids know that anger is normal, though managing its expression can be complicated.

Clear language and child-friendly art invite a direct, straightforward examination of when anger is appropriate and how to safely express it through art, physical activity, tears. What's not OK is hitting, biting, throwing and hurting. The book gently and clearly reminds its vulnerable audience that adults can find the journey just as tricky as children do. If an adult hurts a child or someone they love, Federico instructs her young readers that telling a trusted adult is a safe and right action for them to take.

Needless to say, this is a complex emotional territory, and Federico's tone is perfect: even, loving, simple, clear. Educators and caregivers may well find this a helpful tool in eliciting important conversations, and the book includes contact information for The National Domestic Violence Hotline and other respected sources of support.

This book is also available in Spanish.

Julie Federico

Domestic Violence Expert

www.juliefederico.com

Review Quotes

A Manning 5.0 out of 5 stars Great for small children and very relatable! Reviewed in the United States

This is a perfect book for small children who have witnessed domestic violence or struggle with angry/aggressive behaviors. I am a children's therapist and I always find that children would rather read about a story about an animal rather than a human any day! The book is small, and the illustrations are vibrant. Overall, a great book! Great for small children and very relatable!

By Amanda

MDR Reader 5.0 out of 5 stars Tiny, well illustrated, important DV book! Reviewed in the United States

Someone complained about the length of this book, but I think it is just perfect for a small child, and although I am reading it in Kindle, I am going to buy one for my office lobby - and if it gets taken by a needy child then I will get another!) Thank you and please write on another important Child's topic because you have a knack for this.

Read This Book to Your Children, Please! Reviewed in the United States

Again, author Julie K. Federico advocates for young ones. In her first book, Some Parts are Not for Sharing, she educates about body safety using a pair of amazing fish to illustrate her important story. You'll meet those same adorable fish in her newest book, Anger is Okay Violence is Not. Designed for preschoolers, subjects of anger and violence are discussed in easy-to-understand ways and with suggestions, for the little ones, of what to do.

Statistics are grim for children in households where anger and violence happen. As a health professional, I say this children's book needs to find its way to every home, every preschool and every library. -Judy Martin-Urban, nurse practitioner

5.0 out of 5 stars

Read This Book to Your Children, Please!

Again, author Julie K. Federico advocates for young ones. In her first book, Some Parts are Not for Sharing, she educates about body safety using a pair of amazing fish to illustrate her important story. You'll meet those same adorable fish in her newest book, Anger is Okay Violence is Not. Designed for preschoolers, subjects of anger and violence are discussed in easy-to-understand ways and with suggestions, for the little ones, of what to do.

Statistics are grim for children in households where anger and violence happen. As a health professional, I say this children's book needs to find its way to every home, every preschool and every library. -Judy Martin-Urban, Nurse Practitioner

5.0 out of 5 stars

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Reviewed in the United States on March 2, 2020

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Very hard to talk to a 2 yr. old about violence in a way where they can comprehend what it is at all but this book helps a lot.

I am a Reading teacher that often teaches preschoolers Social Emotional Learning. I use this book as a simple and effective way to help children manage their angry moments. The book is engaging, attractive, and spoken in a language that children enjoy. I will be using this with all of my reading classes because this book helps children to understand their anger and use effective ways to control as well as express it.

This is a perfect book for small children who have witnessed domestic violence or struggle with angry/aggressive behaviors. I am a children's therapist and I always find that children would rather read about a story about an animal rather than a human any day! The book is small and the illustrations are vibrant. Overall, a great book!

starsGreat book that helps children understand Anger!

ByMaryon August 14, 2017

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Great for small children and very relatable!

ByAmanda on April 21, 2016

Format: Perfect Paperback