Palaver - by Bryan Washington (Hardcover)

About the Book

"The story of a mother and a son, estranged for ten years, reconnecting in the son's chosen city of Tokyo in the weeks leading up to Christmas"-- Provided by publisher.

Book Synopsis

Finalist for the National Book Award for Fiction

Named a Most Anticipated Book by New York, Time, the Boston Globe, Rolling Stone, Harper's Bazaar, Bustle, and Town & Country

A life-affirming novel of family, mending, and how we learn to love, from the award-winning Bryan Washington.

In Tokyo, the son works as an English tutor and drinks his nights away with friends at a gay bar. He's entangled in a sexual relationship with a married man, and while he has built a chosen family in Japan, he is estranged from his mother in Houston, whose preference for the son's oft-troubled homophobic brother, Chris, pushed him to leave home. Then, in the weeks leading up to Christmas, ten years since they last saw each other, the mother arrives uninvited on his doorstep.

With only the son's cat, Taro, to mediate, the two of them bristle at each other immediately. The mother, wrestling with memories of her youth in Jamaica and her own complicated brother, works to reconcile her good intentions with her missteps. The son struggles to forgive. But as life steers them in unexpected directions--the mother to a tentative friendship with a local bistro owner and the son to a cautious acquaintance with a new patron of the bar--they begin to see each other more clearly. During meals and conversations and an eventful trip to Nara, mother and son try as best they can to determine where "home" really is--and whether they can even find it in one another.

Written with understated humor and an open heart, moving through past and present and across Houston, Jamaica, and Japan, Bryan Washington's Palaver is an intricate story of family, love, and the beauty of a life among others.

Review Quotes

Advance Praise

"Bryan Washington is one of the most sensual and emotionally captivating writers out there. His sparse yet resplendent style could be considered Hemingway-esque, but his terseness isn't muscular, it's musical, with a keen ear for the rhythms of speech and thought, the rubato ways that moods can change . . . With Palaver, Washington has again proven himself to be a genius of feeling, a writer who resuscitates our hearts with every word."
--Eric A. Ponce, BookPage (starred review)

"A bighearted drama . . . The situation is rather straightforward, but Washington's nuanced portrait of the gulf between mother and son and their difficulties bridging it offers keen insights into human relationships . . . The author's fans will love this."
--Publishers Weekly

"Rendered in a taut, affecting prose, Washington's third novel portrays a queer Black man's attempts to reconcile emotions surrounding his estranged mother and conflicted relationships from Jamaica to Texas to Japan."
--Hamilton Cain, The Boston Globe (Best New Fall Books)

"An intimate look at a young gay man struggling to reconcile with his family."
--Time (Best Fall Books)

"[Bryan Washington] is at his best when drawing stark lines between distant cities and people. While Palaver drops readers directly into an argumentative and reeling household, the resulting novel is quiet, specific, and, ultimately, a uniquely beautiful read."
--CT Jones, Rolling Stone

"Tender and endearing . . . Count on Washington for stylish tales with emotional depth and, always, delicious-sounding food."
--Library Journal (starred review)

"It's remarkable how delicately and finely Washington metes out the emotional journeys for both mother and son . . . He's skillful at conveying the ways in which small, even tiny acts of kindness can heal . . . A patient, powerful analysis of the dual devotion required to heal a fractured relationship."
--Kirkus Reviews

"Few writers write about tenderness as Bryan Washington does--unadorned tenderness that is full of heart and humor but steers clear from familiar sentimentalities and convenient solutions. With deep understanding of human relationships, Palaver is a rare novel that offers companionship to solitary readers and lonely souls."
--Yiyun Li, author of Things in Nature Merely Grow

"Palaver is the pinnacle of what has become Washington's classic approach to writing: care, humor, tenderness, and an embrace of human beings at their most vulnerable, lovely, and wounded. It's such a joy to see the summation of his generosity of thinking and living actualized in the sentence. Fiction--no--life is better because Washington is writing."
--Ocean Vuong

"Gripping, beautiful, honest, unlike anything else on the bookshelf! A great work by one of America's greatest young writers, Palaver will break and remake your heart. A book I will be sending to everyone I know."
--Andrew Sean Greer, Pulitzer Prize-winning author of Less and Less Is Lost

"Palaver is an intimate, ambulatory, and deeply human reflection on family and home--on what we choose and what's already chosen for us. It's about our flawed attempts at loving and being loved, forgiving and being forgiven. It's the rare novel that manages to be funny and sad and honest all at once--awake to the mundane miracles of our lives. Bryan Washington is one of a kind."
--Rachel Khong, author of Real Americans

"The gift of reading Bryan Washington's tender, funny, profoundly compassionate fiction is like sinking finally into a warm bath: a prose that stirs all those sore places that have lingered unspoken in us--and then meets them with Washington's singular, achingly gentle attention, warmth, and solace. Palaver is a quiet knockout of a novel, a book like a yearning hand stretched out to the wide world (even if a car crashes into it!), and most of all a book that knows all family stories (that is, stories about all the possible definitions of family) are also love stories, complete with the heartbreak, loss and betrayal--but also the luminous hope of repair, recovery, and reconciliation."
--Elaine Castillo, author of Moderation

"Palaver has my heart. The days have felt less heavy while I've gotten to spend time in the novel's capacious world and I can already tell I'll want to reread soon. Bryan Washington is a genius and you want this gorgeous book."
―R.O Kwon, author of Exhibit

"[Bryan Washington] is a technically dazzling writer."
--Alan Hollinghurst, author of Our Evenings

"Bryan Washington speaks for people who have too long been silenced, and the voice he has found for them is defiant, compassionate, decent and profoundly human."
--Damon Galgut, author of The Promise

About the Author

Bryan Washington is the author of the story collection Lot and the novels Memorial and Family Meal. A National Book Foundation 5 Under 35 Honoree, he is the winner of the Dylan Thomas Prize, the NYPL Young Lions Fiction Award, two Lambda Literary Awards, and a PEN/O. Henry Prize, and he has been a finalist for the National Book Critics Circle Award for Fiction, the Aspen Words Literary Prize, the Center for Fiction First Novel Prize, the Andrew Carnegie Medal for Excellence in Fiction, and the James Tait Black Prize. A frequent contributor to The New Yorker and The New York Times food section, his writing has also appeared in The New York Times Magazine, Time, and The Paris Review Daily. Raised in Texas, he lives in Houston and Japan.