That's Just Not True - by Erica Ligenza Gwynn (Paperback)

About the Book

For any woman feeling trapped by the pitfalls of comparison and fear of falling short, this practical guide will help you replace toxic lies with scriptural truths, escape the burden of expectations, and finally feel true freedom in Christ.

Book Synopsis

Replace Internalized Lies with God's Unchanging Truth

- Replace toxic lies with scriptural truths
- Escape the burden of expectations
- Finally feel true freedom in Christ
- For any woman feeling trapped by comparison and the fear of falling short

Are you feeling burned out by hustle culture? Weighed down by expectations? Stuck in indecision? Overwhelmed by, well, practically everything? It's not just you. A generation of Christian women are caught between being told they can and should "have it all" and an inner terror that, with one wrong move, it will all come crumbling down. Erica Ligenza Gwynn has lived in the constant tension of being told she is too much yet never enough. After too many uncomfortable years, she finally discovered the key to living free: recognizing and rejecting worldly lies and replacing them with God's truth.

In That's Just Not True, she shows you a better path forward through the noise. This book is an anthem for true freedom, helping you spot lies you didn't even know you believed or that the world sells as "empowering" even though they leave you feeling empty. Lies like
- If I'm not hustling, I'm lazy
- It's happening for everyone but me
- I am enough
- I will never be given anything I can't handle
- My feelings are my truth
- I'm in control and can "manifest" my dream life
- I'm too messy/broken/damaged to be loved
- and more

Begin replacing those lies with God's truth today and find wild freedom in living out your God-given callings with authenticity, purpose, and joy.


"That's Just Not True is the anthem we've been desperately waiting for! Erica's words--equal parts big-sister energy and the kind of hard-won warmth, wit, and wisdom that cannot be rushed--remind us that we have good work we were put here to do. And it has absolutely nothing to do with winning the world's approval."--Mary Marantz, bestselling author of Underestimated and host of The Mary Marantz Show

"With passion and hope, Erica confronts the lies we so often believe and points us back to God's unwavering faithfulness and goodness. This book is truly a gift to all who read it."--Tanner Olson, author, spoken-word poet, and speaker

"This book is a breath of fresh air, full of wisdom, encouragement, and freedom. I can't recommend it enough!"--Hope Reagan Harris, author, podcast host, and founder of the Purpose Doesn't Pause movement

"Erica takes you by the hand and, while making you laugh (and tear up a little), she systematically frees you from unhelpful platitudes, half-truths, and flat-out lies that have kept you stuck for years."--Stephanie May Wilson, author of Create a Life You Love and host of the Girls Night podcast

From the Back Cover

What if the life you're chasing is built on lies?

You're exhausted. Not just physically but soul-deep. You've done all the "right" things--hustled, achieved, paid your dues, and smiled through it. Yet you're still anxious, overwhelmed, and wondering why it all feels so . . . empty.

Here's the truth: The world is selling you a version of freedom that only leaves you more burdened. In That's Just Not True, Erica Ligenza Gwynn exposes the cultural lies disguised as empowerment, progress, or self-love that have been keeping you stuck. Lies like

- If I'm not hustling, I'm lazy.
- It's happening for everyone but me.
- My feelings are my truth.
- I am enough.
- I will never be given anything I can't handle.
- I can "manifest" my dream life.
- I'm too messy, broken, or damaged to be loved.

Some of these lies sound true--some even sound good--but none are actually of God. Through vulnerable stories, biblical truth, a whole lot of grace, and just enough laughs to keep it real, Erica helps you finally stop performing and start living free. It's time to trade pressure for peace and replace every lie with God's truth.


"Erica's words--equal parts big-sister energy and the kind of hard-won warmth, wit, and wisdom that cannot be rushed--remind us that we have good work we were put here to do. And it has absolutely nothing to do with winning the world's approval. Honestly, I needed this book twenty years ago! The world is a better place because Erica is in it."--Mary Marantz, bestselling author of Underestimated and host of The Mary Marantz Show

About the Author

Erica Ligenza Gwynn is an author, podcaster, coach, speaker, and content creator. She's the founder of Coming Up Roses, an online community rooted in the belief that while not everything in life is pretty, and every rose has its thorn, we can still honor our seasons and live in full bloom. Erica is building a wild and wonderful life in the Philadelphia area with her husband, Jamie, their two awesome kids, their cats Purrcy and Milo, and Lucy the Labradoodle.