When Mothering Is Hard and No One Sees - by Shalene Roberts (Paperback)

About the Book

Amid the daily challenges of being a mom, discover how you were made and equipped to mother with an impact that will ripple throughout eternity.

Book Synopsis

Several years ago, Shalene Roberts sat with her two young children under the age of three, wrestling with thoughts about motherhood and wondering why it was so desperately hard. Pulling out her phone, she poured out her thoughts in a blog post entitled "When Mothering Is Hard and No One Sees." Unexpectedly, those honest musings went viral, and that heartfelt post has had more than 630,000 views.

Now a mother of five, Shalene understands that women everywhere struggle with the all-consuming service of motherhood--feeling unseen and underappreciated. Even those whose motherhood ride has been fairly smooth may wonder if what they're doing is making any difference. The words in Shalene's post gave voice to these questions. And it was out of that post that this book was born.

You may be a younger mom or an older mom, a mom of toddlers or teens. The children you care for may be biological, adoptive, foster, or grandchildren. In When Mothering Is Hard and No One Sees, you will feel seen for your own motherhood struggles and challenges. This book helps you gain a new sense of how God views you as you move toward the hope He has revealed to Shalene: a bigger picture of being a mom with an impact that ripples throughout eternity. In creation and in redemption, you were made--and remade--to mother.

In these pages, you will discover...

• God's original design for motherhood
• Your position as a daughter of the King, elevating your motherhood role
• The assurance of abundant forgiveness for mistakes and failures
• How God has uniquely equipped you for this sacred role--with your specific children
• How to find true rest amid the never-ending demands

When mothering is hard...God sees. And He will take you from the gritty to the glorious in your journey as a mom.

Review Quotes

As a mother of four children myself, When Mothering Is Hard and No One Sees deeply encouraged me. Through biblical examples, personal stories, and an authentic writing style, Shalene Roberts beautifully guides the reader back to the Father's heart and His design for motherhood. This book gently reminds me of the eternal impact we have as mothers and how it is truly an honor to lead our children and homes in His grace. All glory to the Lord for giving us the incredible gift of mothering!
--Nicole Jacobsmeyer
Speaker and author, Take Back Your Joy

I've personally watched Shalene Roberts live out the message of this book from the moment she announced her first pregnancy. As her pastor, neighbor, and friend, I've seen her embody both the wonder and the weight of God's vision for parenting. With rich depth, inspiration, and practical guidance, Shalene offers a Christ-centered roadmap for moms who feel like this calling is too much--because it is, apart from grace. This book will challenge, comfort, and, most important, equip you to see parenting as a sacred calling that is entirely within your reach.
--Chris Freeland
Senior Pastor, Doxology Bible Church, Fort Worth, TX

If you've ever wondered whether the hidden work of motherhood really matters, When Mothering Is Hard and No One Sees is the reminder your heart needs. With biblical wisdom and heartfelt encouragement, Shalene Roberts beautifully reframes motherhood as a divine calling, not a lesser role. This book lifted my eyes to see God's purpose in the everyday and gave me fresh confidence to mother with intention, joy, and grace.
--Rachael Adams
Author, Everyday Prayers for Love and A Little Goes a Long Way

About the Author

Shalene C. Roberts is a wife, part-time homeschooling mom of five, writer, photographer, and small business owner. As a former magazine editor, she seeks to inspire women to anchor in Christ, nurture grace-filled families, and foster life-giving homes. Her work has appeared in an array of outlets, including Her View From Home, Motherly, the Thrive Moms Exhale Bible study, the MOPS Blog, MICI Magazine, KirkCameron.com, SHINE magazine, TODAY Parents, Stroll Magazine, and a variety of other publications. Her post "When Mothering Is Hard and No One Sees" has had more than 630,000 views and has been shared worldwide. Shalene has also taught at the Declare Conference and is the author of Bruce the Brave, a heartwarming children's book about courage and faith. Additionally, she is the founder of Lily & Loom, a boutique vintage Turkish rug shop. Lily & Loom rugs have been seen on HGTV, the Magnolia Network, and Fixer Upper: Welcome Home.