About the Book

"Why Won't You Sleep? will finally give you concrete answers to why sleep has been more challenging for you and your child-and offers a much-needed confidence boost that will leave you saying, "I've got this.""--

Book Synopsis

Have you tried everything to get your child to sleep and nothing has worked? You are not alone.

Researcher and sleep coach Macall Gordon and the Sleep Lady Kim West offer a tried-and-true approach to shifting sleep behavior that actually works . . . even when nothing else has.

A tsunami of modern sleep training methods promise "easy" and "quick" results and for many parents and children, these methods work as intended. However, there is a large, exhausted group of parents whose children have sleep problems that are not responsive to those crying-based methods.

These children tend to be more reactive, persistent, and perceptive than their peers. And when it comes to sleep, little ones with this kind of temperament put up a much, much bigger fight. They need a different approach. That's where Why Won't You Sleep? comes in.

Based on extensive research and proven methods used with thousands of families just like yours, this guide gives you strategies tailored to your child's unique temperament. Readers will learn:

Why popular sleep training techniques don't work for some children The strengths and challenges of your child's temperament traits Simple changes to your child's routine and environment that set you up for success How to create a plan for your child, using the time-tested approach that doesn't require leaving anyone alone to cry Tips, tricks, and workarounds for bedtime shenanigans, night wakings, co-sleeping, and more How to confidently push past plateaus and setbacks

Along the way, Gordon and West provide much-needed encouragement, validation, and insights to bolster parents' self-confidence and resilience. Why Won't You Sleep?! gives you concrete answers to why sleep has been more challenging for these kiddos--and offers parents a much-needed dose of "I've got this!"

Review Quotes

"Macall and Kim beautifully sum up the experiences of sleep struggles for a kiddo who just won't sleep. If you want real strategies without being told you must be doing something 'wrong, ' then this is the book for you."
--Madeleine Cushman, LMHC, infant mental health counselor

"A book that acknowledges the crucial role of temperamental style in many sleepless babies . . . [the authors] take the reader step-by-step through the program . . . prioritizing the parent and child's emotional bond."
--Sean C. McDevitt, PhD, child psychologist and founder of Behavioral-Developmental Initiatives

"I wish I'd had this book when my livewire young adult (who has two livewire parents) was young! Understanding our kid's behaviors through the lens of the nervous system--including unique temperament--brings so much more compassion and patience for both them and ourselves! Macall and Kim generously offer the reader an attunement-focused, science-based, practical approach to helping our little ones get what they need so their brilliance can shine through."
--Robyn Gobbel, MSW, author of Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors

About the Author

Macall Gordon has a master's degree in applied psychology from Antioch University in Seattle with a research-based specialization in infant mental health, sleep advice, and parenting culture. She also has a BS in human biology from Stanford University. She is a senior lecturer in the graduate counseling psychology program at Antioch University. She has conducted and presented her own research on temperament, sleep, and parenting advice at infant and child development conferences around the world. She has been a featured speaker at national sleep conferences and has led webinar-based advanced training for sleep coaches, mental health providers, and others on the impact of temperament on sleep. She is a certified Gentle Sleep Coach (trained by Kim West) and a featured provider on the women's telehealth platform, Maven Clinic. She comes to this work because she had two sensitive, alert, intense children, and she didn't sleep for 18 years.

Kim West, MSW, is a mom of two who has been a practicing child and family social worker for over 25 years. She has personally helped over twenty thousand families all over the world gently teach their children how to fall asleep--and fall back asleep without leaving them to cry it out alone. She started training Gentle Sleep Coaches internationally in 2010 and has appeared as a child sleep expert on numerous magazines, newspapers, and television programs including Dr. Phil, TODAY, and Good Morning America.