Becoming Who We Are: Real Stories about Growing Up Trans - by Sammy Lisel & Lilah Sturges (Paperback)

About the Book

A collection of stories by members of the trans community about their childhoods, specifically their life goals and how they achieved them, including musicians, actors, teachers, scientists, forest rangers, and activists.--Publisher.

Book Synopsis

Becoming who you are is a journey, and all journeys start somewhere.

In a collection of stories from across the spectrum of real-life experience, nine members of the trans community share their inspirational childhood stories. These are tales of questioning, affirming, transitioning, and growing up; courageous, gripping accounts from musicians, actors, teachers, scientists, forest rangers, and activists of how they overcame their unique challenges to become who they truly are.

Featuring work by HAZEL NEWLEVANT, LILAH STURGES, CYNTHIA YUAN CHENG, KAMERON WHITE, SUNMI, and many more!

Review Quotes

"a memorable anthology" - The Beat

"Combines sheer talent with the supple versatility of an adroit graphical storyteller." -- NPR (Hazel Newlevant, No Ivy League)

"Every page of the book is infused with an aesthetic understanding of queerness as a way of life defined by kindness and respect." -- THE COMICS JOURNAL (Hazel Newlevant, Sugar Town)

BOOKLIST -- Lisel, Newlevant, and a talented team of artists tell the stories of nine trans people discovering their true selves and excelling and pursuing their passions. These first-person narratives outline the difficulties of transitioning, especially in the cases of those who knew they were different from a young age. Each story is drawn by a different artist; each story has its own style to encapsulate the ups and downs of growing up trans in a format that is accessible and appealing to young readers. One standout theme is self-acceptance as a first step to taking pride in oneself. Each story, both in narrative and art, is handled with the utmost care to create messages of hope and understanding to young readers. By exploring trans and nonbinary identities, this anthology proves that internal identity turmoil is a part of growing up for everyone and that these struggles can lead us on a path to a vibrant and exciting adulthood founded on personal interests and beliefs.

KIRKUS -- Nine transgender people share their stories.Each tale in this work of graphic nonfiction, depicted by a different, talented illustrator, is told from the point of view of a real trans person. Brooke Guinan fought to make the NYC Fire Department more diverse and inclusive. Diamond Stylz, executive director of Black Trans Woman Inc., endured bullying and parental neglect before meeting supportive queer friends and filing a lawsuit against her school for the right to attend prom in a dress. Marli Washington grappled with alcoholism and disordered eating but eventually began transitioning, fell in love, and started a company that designs chest binders. The individuals profiled are racially diverse and include transgender men and women as well as nonbinary people. Though it isn't entirely clear how the stories came to be written (the subjects aren't listed as co-authors, nor is there an explanation about an interview process), it's a small point. The book overwhelmingly leaves readers with a sense of positivity. Even when the subjects confront painful situations--being bullied, getting kicked out of the house--all agree: It's important to find a way to be true to yourself. They discuss not only their gender transitions, but also how they discovered their voices, passions, and careers. Though the work will resonate with many readers, it will especially speak to trans youth. Inspiring and honest accounts from relatable role models. (Graphic nonfiction. 8-13)