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Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing - by Matthew Perry

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The beloved star of Friends takes us behind the scenes of the hit sitcom and his struggles with addiction in this candid, funny, and revelatory memoir that delivers a powerful message of hope and persistence.

"Hi, my name is Matthew, although you may know me by another name. My friends call me Matty. And I should be dead."

So begins the riveting story of acclaimed actor Matthew Perry, taking us along on his journey from childhood ambition to fame to addiction and recovery in the aftermath of a life-threatening health scare. Before the frequent hospital visits and stints in rehab, there was five-year-old Matthew, who traveled from Montreal to Los Angeles, shuffling between his separated parents; fourteen-year-old Matthew, who was a nationally ranked tennis star in Canada; twenty-four-year-old Matthew, who nabbed a coveted role as a lead cast member on the talked-about pilot then called Friends Like Us. . . and so much more.

In an extraordinary story that only he could tell--and in the heartfelt, hilarious, and warmly familiar way only he could tell it--Matthew Perry lays bare the fractured family that raised him (and also left him to his own devices), the desire for recognition that drove him to fame, and the void inside him that could not be filled even by his greatest dreams coming true. But he also details the peace he's found in sobriety and how he feels about the ubiquity of Friends, sharing stories about his castmates and other stars he met along the way. Frank, self-aware, and with his trademark humor, Perry vividly depicts his lifelong battle with addiction and what fueled it despite seemingly having it all.

Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing is an unforgettable memoir that is both intimate and eye-opening--as well as a hand extended to anyone struggling with sobriety. Unflinchingly honest, moving, and uproariously funny, this is the book fans have been waiting for.



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Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing is a raw, unflinching memoir that took courage to write. As it turns out, Matthew Perry has a lot of courage. He takes us through his addiction, his illness and his paralyzing loneliness. Somehow, during the course of his life, Matthew was able to turn his pain into comedic joy for others, but, he tells us, it was at a cost. Matthew takes us through his "hell" but doesn't wallow. Ultimately, this book is filled with hope for the future. If you want to know about who Matthew Perry is, stay away from the rags and read this. --Marta Kauffman, co-creator of the NBC sitcom Friends



About the Author



Matthew Perry is a Canadian American actor, executive producer, and comedian.
Suggested Age: 22 Years and Up
Number of Pages: 272
Genre: Biography + Autobiography
Sub-Genre: Personal Memoirs
Publisher: Flatiron Books
Format: Hardcover
Author: Matthew Perry
Language: English
Street Date: November 1, 2022
TCIN: 85292990
UPC: 9781250866448
Item Number (DPCI): 059-01-9133
Origin: Made in the USA
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4.9 out of 5 stars with 152 reviews
96% would recommend
29 recommendations

beautiful & vulnerable

5 out of 5 stars
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Lenny - 6 months ago, Verified purchaser
The book is a beautiful and vulnerable exploration of addiction. This Friend has crafted a narrative that not only tells a story but also provides a deep understanding of addiction's complexities. For anyone looking to gain a better understanding of addiction—whether it’s for personal reasons or to better empathize with those who suffer—this book is an invaluable resource. I highly recommend the audio since he reads it but having the book was a must for me too.
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Book

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Ipad - 8 months ago, Verified purchaser
I like that my product was what I wanted. In addition, I like that it came in on time.
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Best book ever

5 out of 5 stars
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Car - 9 months ago
Great very interesting and makes you worry at sometimes but is so good
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MP/CB

4 out of 5 stars
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Jean - 10 months ago, Verified purchaser
It’s very real and heartbreaking but also a little hard to follow at times.
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Great book!

5 out of 5 stars
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Friieennddss - 11 months ago
I just started reading this book and it is so goodA. Matthew Perry over came so much his story is incredible
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Enjoyed

5 out of 5 stars
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Moke - 1 year ago, Verified purchaser
Interesting story; many ups and downs
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Worth the wait

5 out of 5 stars
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Pinky506 - 1 year ago, Verified purchaser
I was on backorder but was kept informed. Good read, brave, worth the wait. RIP MATTHEW
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RIP Matthew

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A Friend - 1 year ago, Verified purchaser
Even though I haven't started reading this yet, I'm thrilled to have it as a keepsake. I've read excellent reviews about it & Matthew Perry was my favorite on the TV show. He'll be forever missed...
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Your next book

5 out of 5 stars
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Loki Skarsgard - 1 year ago, Verified purchaser
This is one of the best books I've ever read. It's so relatable as far as my struggle with addiction as well. Rest in peace Matthew Perry ❤️
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Amazing book

5 out of 5 stars
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Cookie - 1 year ago, Verified purchaser
I purchased this book for my sister who was devastated by his loss it brought some comfort
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Love this book!

5 out of 5 stars
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cmharrison70 - 1 year ago, Verified purchaser
Great read~ very interesting to read about the root of his addiction along with his heartwarming humor
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The One Where We Lost a Friend

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txgrl832 - 1 year ago, Verified purchaser
I knew about this book, when it released, but never got it or got to read it. I was up late Saturday/Sunday and ordered it. Came in today and I’m so glad, cause now I see it’s sold out. Just started, chapter one and can’t wait to finish it. I’ve heard great things about it. So sad that he has passed on. Rest easy Matthew Perry.
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Awesome book! Go read it!!

5 out of 5 stars
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Itachi79 - 2 years ago
Matthew is not a professional author and/or writer, but he does a great job in this book. I rarely read books but I happened to actually open this one and read past the first couple of pages and haven't stopped. He goes into stories of his personal life and experiences. I know there are some people out there that feel and think like: they are alone, the only one feeling how they feel, or no one understands them. I felt the same way, while this book does not guarantee a cure lol, it can guarantee you hope and the assurance that you not alone. Very good book, HIGHLY recommend.
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Loved This Autobiography

5 out of 5 stars
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- 2 years ago, Verified purchaser
I am a big fan of Matthew Perry. I would highly recommend this autobiography that dives deep into the life, struggles, and triumphs of Matthew Perry. it was well worth the purchase!
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100% read this.

5 out of 5 stars
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Madison - 2 years ago, Verified purchaser
Loved loved loved. Love him even more now. Great read. Very interesting. And it really opened my eyes to what addicts actually go through. Crazy to think he was going through so much while he was on the show friends. The only thing I didn’t like is that he jumped around (time frame)
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Love Matthew Perry

5 out of 5 stars
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Kayla - 2 years ago, Verified purchaser
Great read! A must for any Friends fan. I love Matthew, he has been through a lot and details it in the book in an honest way. It would be a great gift to anyone struggling with addiction.
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Excellent!

5 out of 5 stars
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Grandma - 2 years ago
I found the book well-written, easy to read, funny, sad, and enlightening, and hope the words written within the pages will help others in similar situations. It takes courage to bare one's soul....
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Must read!

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CeCeT - 2 years ago, Verified purchaser
Absolutely wonderful! The truth behind the pain is moving and shows how courageous Matthew is and the strong man that he is now and during his entire life. Very moving and motivating! His vulnerability is amazing and I am so glad he was able to share his story with all of us! His “Friends” from our own living space. Would love to meet him and shake his hand and tell him he should be so proud of himself. His story will probably help more than he realizes!
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Could this BE anymore of a must read?

5 out of 5 stars
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Heather - 2 years ago, Verified purchaser
I am a HUGE fan of Friends, I watched from day 1, I own every DVD, and more collectibles. When I saw Matthew Perry was putting out an autobiography, I immediately wanted it. I received a copy for Christmas. We all watched Matthew go through the stages during Friends, physically seeing the weight differences from Season to Season. In this book, Matthew lays it all out. Every single demon he was fighting. All the rehabs. All the horrible things he went through and survived as an addict. And honestly, none of it was his fault in my opinion. Early in the story you will find out he was given drugs by a doctor bc he was a colicky baby. This is surely to blame for his addiction. So sad. Your heart will break over and over as he tells his story. But, if you were a Friends fan, or an addict, or know an addict, then I think this is a book for you. And if I ever get to meet Matthew Perry, I hope he will let me give him a hug. He surely needs one!
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Must read

5 out of 5 stars
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Nmj - 2 years ago, Verified purchaser
True raw emotions and a great look into the struggle of addiction from a favorite tv star
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