The Magic of Yes - by Lori Pappas

Book Synopsis

When did you last choose yourself without feeling guilty?

Can't remember? You're not alone.

Most of us spend our lives helping others while our own dreams collect dust. I did it too-even after breaking out of a mental institution at seventeen, building a multi-million-dollar tech company, and transforming 100,000 lives in Africa.

I was still helping others while ignoring my needs to feel loved, connected, at peace.

That's when I created the D.R.E.A.M. method to save myself-and wrote The Magic of Yes to share it.

This isn't just another self-help book. It's your practical guide to breaking free from what you can't even see.

Inside, you'll get concrete tools to:

• • Set boundaries that actually stick-without the guilt
  • Stop people-pleasing-and start trusting your own voice
  • Forgive yourself and others-so you can finally move forward
  • Navigate major life transitions-empty nest, career changes, relationship shifts
  • Access your inner wisdom-through proven D.R.E.A.M. prompts at the end of every chapter

Each chapter blends real stories (mine and other women's), research-backed insights, and customizable exercises you can adapt to YOUR specific challenges.

Whether you're drowning in "supposed-tos," exhausted from putting everyone first, or simply ready to reclaim your voice-this book meets you exactly where you are.

"It's a workbook for life." ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Dozens of five-star reviews from women who've used this exact method to transform their lives.

Choose you-you've earned it!

Review Quotes

"The Magic of Yes by Lori Pappas is a transformative guide that empowers women to embrace their potential and pursue their dreams with confidence. Through relatable stories and insightful lessons, Pappas illustrates how to break free from limiting beliefs and cultivate a life aligned with your true self. This book is not just a road map; it's a call to action for every woman seeking inspiration and validation. With practical advice and heartfelt wisdom, Pappas encourages us to say yes to our curiosity and strength, reminding us that the journey to self-discovery is both essential and rewarding. Dive into these pages and unlock the magic within you!" -Amelia M. Duran-Stanton, PhD, DSc, MPAS, author of The LOTUS Within: Grow Your Purpose and Ignite Your Passion

"This powerful book reveals how saying yes to challenge and change can catalyze extraordinary personal growth. Drawing from her remarkable journey, Pappas provides a practical road map for transformation that will resonate with anyone who has ever faced failure and wondered, What next?" -Joe Sipher, author of Outsmart the Learning Curve, entrepreneur, product and marketing executive, mentor

"In The Magic of Yes: Embrace the Wise Woman Within, author Lori Pappas offers sound and time-tested working premises for the expected and unexpected curveballs that life may throw our way. As a longtime practitioner in the field of leadership, team building, and organization development, I have seen these principles at work in many settings. The key to their success is scrupulous application; we must play our part. Make the necessary effort, and the universe will smile on us! The Magic of Yes offers excellent navigation guidelines, and although it addresses women directly, these principles apply to men too. Highly recommended." -Michael Shandler, EdD, award-winning author of the memoir Karma & Kismet: A Spiritual Quest Across Continents, Cultures, and Consciousness

"The Magic of Yes is an uplifting book for anyone who wants to be deeply inspired and encouraged to live their best life. The author shares openly about her own difficult journey, which is inspiring beyond words. Other touching stories from 'wise women' who have overcome adversity are woven seamlessly into the book, providing valuable lessons and insight. Lori encourages all women to become their authentic selves through living intentionally and saying yes to the things that bring joy and growth into life." -Helene Zupanc, licensed professional counselor and author of Sticky Note Mantras: The Art and Science of Choosing Your Thoughts

"A must-read, Lori Pappas's brilliant book The Magic of Yes brings value and relevance to every woman's inherent wisdom. It explores how our inner muse can motivate us to overcome our fears as we reveal our deepest desires and truth." -Joan E Childs, psychotherapist, inspirational speaker, author of Do You Hate the One You Love? (Strategies to Heal and Save Your Relationship), Why Did She Jump? (My Daughter's Battle with Bipolar Disorder), and The Myth of the Maiden (On Being a Woman)