About the Book"Spiritual leader, and founder of Rising Woman, the popular online community of over 2.1 Million, Sheleana Aiyana's BECOMING THE ONE is a practical, spiritual and inner-work journey to break free of the relationship patterns that keep you in a cycle of unhappiness and come home to the self. In the vein of Calling in "The One" (125K copies sold), and Melody Beattie's Codependent No More (1.2M copies sold), Sheleana empowers readers to reclaim their true nature and alchemize their pain of heartbreak, toxic relationship patterns, and past traumas into power so that they recognize their worth and own their voice. Exhausted with chasing unavailable love? Do you feel like you lose yourself every time you get into relationship? Becoming the One is about defining your core values, relationship goals and dreams, so you can stop chasing, and start choosing your relationships from a place of self-awareness and confidence. No more self-abandoning, performing to "deserve" love, or turning down our needs to be loved by others. This beautifully written book teaches you to consciously create the love you want. Taking you step-by-step through her bestselling program "Becoming the One," Aiyana will teach you to: Set boundaries. Recognize your relationship patterns. Define their core values, and relationship goals. Heal past traumas and insecurities. Notice red and green flags. Choose a conscious relationship. To become "the one" for yourself"--
Book SynopsisAN INSTANT INTERNATIONAL BESTELLER Spiritual writer and Rising Woman founder Sheleana Aiyana takes you on a transformational inner-work journey to heal lifelong relationship patterns and reclaim power over your life.
"Becoming the One is an extraordinary gift that illuminates the path to wholehearted self-acceptance so that we can participate fully in the flow of human connection. The personal stories that the author shares about her own life are unforgettable and alone worth the price of admission. Sheleana Aiyana is a wise woman, a compassionate and clear-eyed guide, a visionary, and a teacher in the true sense of the word. I'd follow her up any mountain."
-- HARRIET LERNER, PhD, New York Times bestselling author of The Dance of Anger and Why Won't You Apologize?
"Sheleana is one of those rare writers whose poetic wisdom touches deep into your soul. Her words will lead you back to yourself in a way that will feel more authentic than ever before. Enjoy this beautiful odyssey back to YOU."
-- DR. SHEFALI, New York Times bestselling author of The Conscious Parent and A Radical Awakening
"Sheleana guides you on the journey of reclaiming yourself and defining your life. This masterpiece will take you from pain to freedom. Reading Becoming the One will help you understand the process and power of healing. Sheleana has created a must-read for people who seek to heal childhood wounds."
-- NEDRA GLOVER TAWWAB, New York Times bestselling author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace
"Sheleana Aiyana has created a clear bridge between personal healing and improving our relationships. Becoming the One is for you if you want to live more fully and experience love at a greater level of harmony. This is a spectacular guide to the inner world and relationships; it dispels myths, grounds you in transformative truth, and reconnects you to your power."
-- YUNG PUEBLO, New York Times bestselling author of Clarity Connection
"Becoming the One is a gift to every human being who's on their journey of healing and coming home to themselves. As you read this book, the poetry of the words seep past the walls of pain and defense and speak directly to the most vulnerable parts of yourself wanting to be seen and recognized. It's as though Sheleana is sitting next to you the whole time, lovingly saying 'I've got you, it's okay to release into your healing.' May all those who need this tender wisdom on their healing journey find their way to Sheleana Aiyana and this powerful book."
-- DR. SCOTT LYONS, founder of The Embody Lab
About the AuthorSHELEANA AIYANA is the founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationship as a spiritual path. More than 30,000 women in 146 countries have taken her flagship program Becoming the One. She lives with her husband, Ben, on xw?nen'?č, the unceded land of the Hul'q'umi'num'-and WSÁNEC´-speaking Coast Salish peoples, now known as Salt Spring Island, BC.