Not Your Mother's Blonde Moment Purple Bonding Conditioner Tone and Repair Lightened Hair - 8 fl oz
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This purple conditioner is designed specifically for blonde, silver, or highlighted hair, effectively toning down brassiness while providing hydration and nourishment. Many guests have praised its ability to leave hair feeling soft, smooth, and manageable. The pleasant scent and luxurious texture enhance the overall experience, making it a staple in hair care routines. While some guests noted minimal effects on toning, the majority found it to be a valuable addition to their hair care regimen.
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4.3 out of 5 stars with 378 reviews
effectiveness: 3.24 out of 5
quality: 3.55 out of 5
value: 3.15 out of 5
69% would recommend
69 recommendations
5 out of 5 stars
Thumbs up graphic, would recommend
7 December, 2025Verified purchase
Keeps me ashy
This is by far one of the best purple conditioners I’ve used. At first I was skeptical given how non-pigmented it is. However I was so pleased with just how much it cooled off my hair. I prefer a dark ash blonde/light ash brown for my hair and usually salons leave it too warm. This conditioner fixes that significantly. The scent is also good and it leaves my hair very soft. I’ll be keeping this one in rotation whenever I get my hair lightened.
1 out of 5 stars
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17 August, 2025Verified purchase
Hard pass
Not my favorite. The pigment is so light that it doesn’t do anything for your hair to tone it and my hair feels drier after using it. I had high hopes but there are much better options out there if you’re looking to tone and bond boost (hint: Eva NYC purple toning mask is fantastic)
1 reply from NYM Team team - 5 months ago
Hi Rita! We regret to hear about your experience. Would you be interested in receiving a personalized recommendation tailored to your hair type and needs? If so, we encourage you to contact our social media team. They're here to assist you on your hair care journey and ensure you have a delightful experience!
2 out of 5 stars
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12 June, 2025Verified purchase
Made curls dry and tangled
To be fair it did help tone down the orange in my hair. The downside was the smell, and how dry it made my hair. I used both the conditioner and the shampoo, the smell was not pleasant. I ended up washing my hair with the one I usually use the Curl Definition. My curls are still dry and tangled but at least the brassy orange is toned down. Won’t be using again. I’ll still to the pink bottle ones for now on.
1 reply from NYM Team team - 7 months ago
Hi Sassy! we are sorry to hear about your experience. Please, reach out to our customer support team. They will be happy to assist you further!
5 out of 5 stars
7 June, 2025
originally posted on NYM
Double Purple
Used with the purple shampoo, this conditioner maintains and subtly enhances the tint to gray hair in between treatments with the purple mask.
4 out of 5 stars
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31 January, 2025Verified purchase
Pretty good
My hair gets sun bleached every summer so the lengths of my hair are pretty brassy. This conditioner smells really good and is also very moisturizing! I liked it. And it did tone/even out the brass from what I can see.
3 out of 5 stars
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2 January, 2025Verified purchase
Its ok
It is pigmented but it is not the same as their mask. I had some brass in my hair this product subtle helped.
1 reply from NYM Team team - 1 year ago
Hi Sara! thank you for sharing your experience with us. Would you be interested in receiving a personalized recommendation tailored to your hair type and needs? If so, we encourage you to reach out to our social media team. They’re here to assist you on your hair care journey and ensure you have a delightful experience!
1 out of 5 stars
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19 November, 2024Verified purchase
Horribly overpriced and leaves my hair more tangled than it was
Would never buy this again. No real scent either.
1 reply from NYM Team team - 1 year ago
Hi Kitty! We are sorry to hear about your experience. Please, reach out to our customer support team. They will be happy to assist you further!
5 out of 5 stars
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8 July, 2024Verified purchase
Purple conditioner
Helped keep my hair fresh and less brassy! Used with the purple shampoo!
5 out of 5 stars
21 June, 2024
originally posted on NYM
Don’t walk, RUN!
I was absolutely BLOWN away. With frequent bleaching damage dryness is expected, but my hair has never been softer! I’ve tried so many different purple conditioners I would 100% recommend to my blonde girlies it’s very repairing!
5 out of 5 stars
28 April, 2024
originally posted on NYM
A dream.
Love this stuff, works great for a no-poo wash, too. Definitely working to keep brassiness down. Have repurchased many times and will continue for as long as I'm blonde.
5 out of 5 stars
2 January, 2024
originally posted on influenster.com

Bye bye brass
[This review was collected as part of a promotion.] This product worked really well at helping to tone down the brassiness of my hair. I didn’t use every wash but every few washes to replenish my balayage.
5 out of 5 stars
1 January, 2024
originally posted on influenster.com

No more frizz !!!
[This review was collected as part of a promotion.] It's honestly been a game-changer for my hair! I've been using the Not Your Mother's conditioner for a while now, and I'm really impressed with the results. It's super moisturizing and leaves my hair feeling incredibly soft and smooth. Plus, it smells amazing! I love how it helps to detangle my hair and reduce frizz, making it much more manageable. It's definitely become a staple in my hair care routine. If you're looking for a conditioner that delivers hydration and leaves your hair looking and feeling great, I highly recommend giving Not Your Mother's conditioner a try!
3 out of 5 stars
29 December, 2023
originally posted on influenster.com

It’s okay
[This review was collected as part of a promotion.] I don’t love this conditioner. I haven’t felt like it did much in the way of repairing, but it’s nice enough and softens my hair a little. I think it would be more useful for someone with shorter hair that doesn’t tangle easily. Still, when used with its matching shampoo I notice a subtle toning effect. Like the shampoo, the scent is not overwhelming or perfumey. Works well enough but just isn’t the conditioner for me.
5 out of 5 stars
28 December, 2023
originally posted on influenster.com

Soft wonderful hair
[This review was collected as part of a promotion.] I am a brunette who truly believes blondes have more fun. Well that also means more maintenance. When I go in to see my hairdresser she always comments on how my hair hasn’t turned that brassy yellow. That’s because I use this! Ever since I’ve started using this it keeps my blonde looking more fresh!
4 out of 5 stars
28 December, 2023
originally posted on influenster.com

moisturizing purple conditioner
[This review was collected as part of a promotion.] i want to start off by saying i very rarely use drugstore shampoo and conditioner because it just usually doesn’t work for my hair. i have super dry hair and normally drugstore products don’t supply me with enough hydrating to work that well. however, this conditioner was actually really good and i definitely liked it a lot! for the actual purple conditioner part i don’t know if it actually made my hair any brighter or if was brighter from the shampoo. either way, it was great to use combined with the purple shampoo. the conditioner wasn’t super thick but it wasn’t thin by any means and it did give my hair hydration! i personally like my conditioner to be a little bit thicker to help with detangling but for the price i would definitely use this again!
4 out of 5 stars
25 December, 2023
originally posted on influenster.com

Great for drug store conditioner!
[This review was collected as part of a promotion.] Since I have Platinum blonde hair, I use purple shampoo and conditioner all the time but mostly buy from my beautician (which is pricy). I’ve been wanting to try this brand as it gets great reviews online but I’ve never pulled the trigger. It is safe to say I will buy this, especially if I’m in a pinch and not near my stylist! The conditioner feels hydrating.
4 out of 5 stars
24 December, 2023
originally posted on influenster.com

Nice conditioner
[This review was collected as part of a promotion.] This is a nice conditioner to use with blonde hair. It was moisturizing and has a soft purple tint to just gently combat brassy or yellow tones in your hair.
5 out of 5 stars
20 December, 2023
originally posted on influenster.com

Amazing Product!
[This review was collected as part of a promotion.] This is an amazing conditioner! It helps tone my blonde highlights, while repairing my hair and allowing it to grow and become more healthy after the use of bleach. I highly recommend!
5 out of 5 stars
20 December, 2023
originally posted on influenster.com

A new staple
[This review was collected as part of a promotion.] I love this conditioner for my highlighted hair. This has refreshed the highlights I got months ago. I use this a couple times a week and it leave my hair looking beautiful and silky. I would recommend!
3 out of 5 stars
20 December, 2023
originally posted on influenster.com

It was ncie
[This review was collected as part of a promotion.] I liked it but it left my hair feeling a little bit greasy. I feel like that with every product I use by this brand though. I liked the scent and it was as really cute packaging